Iam Cancer Patient in very great pain,When will Idie and be free of my pain?

Question

I want to die soon, I am senior citizen. Big burden to me and my family

Answer 1

Hi Mohna V? I am sorry to know that you are a cancer
patient. May Almighty God help you to pass peacefully
this difficult time. As per my knowledge, all cancer patients get severe pain, which goes on till end. However, depends upon cancer to cancer because some cancers can be delayed, e.g. breast cancer, stomach cancer, etc. and so pain, if any, can also be treated accordingly. Frankly, pain killers can help you but for a short period only. However, there are very strong pain killers also, which are better than the usual pain killers for cancer patients. If you live in India, these are being imported but if you live in the States, you can get these easily. The best solution is that you consult your doctor, especially, doctor of a big hospital(e.g. Apolo, etc.), who should be knowing about imported medicines.
Once cancer is detected, in most of the cases end of life
comes in a period of two to eight months, depends upon
the time of detection of the cancer. No doubt, life becomes miserable for the patient and his/her family but
to face such a tragedy there is only one way, i.e. face the
situation gracefully, courageously and peacefully.
May God Bless you & your family.
Yong Kang.

Answer 2

You have not told the details of your disease. Which part is affected ? what is its Grad and Stage? Have you seen an Oncologist ? What are the treatments given ? Has surgery been done and Chemotherapy and Radiation therapy been given. How long you are suffering. What is your otherwise health condition?

These are the vital points to give you any suggestion. We have seen many cancer cases and it can be cured in some cases and relief can be given in some cases to some extent. We do not give up the hope and try till the last.

However, please do not loose heart and we pray for your well being and if you are in the terminal stage God will give you strength to withstand the pain. But never say you want to die. Your children will fight it as CANCER IS STILL AN ENIGMA and can not be left unattended. Best of Luck-

Answer 3

You do not indicate which country that you live in, but I urge you to seek relief from an organization called Hospice. Hospice assists patients with end of life issues, such as pain. And can help you with any palliative treatment that you need. It is totally unnecessary for a cancer patient to suffer needlessly.

Hospice/Palliative Care Worldwide
http://hospiceinternational.com/worldwide.htm

International Association for Hospice and Palliative Care
http://www.hospicecare.com/

These people are dedicated to ending suffering in all patients no matter where they live.

Cancer knows no border.

Peace to you.

Answer 4

I'm so sorry to hear that you are in so much pain sir . I really am sorry that you think you are a burden to your family ,surely you I are not. I'm sure they value every preshous minute with you. As for dieing try to think positve maybe god will work one of his miricles and maybe beat this cancer so you can quit hurting . I'm praying ror you MR. I hope you get better soon .

Answer 5

Your doctors should be doing everything possible to help keep you comfortable. No one but GOD knows when you will die. You wont go till HE wants you. You are not still on this earth for no purpose. I'm sure you are not a burden to your family. They love you but cant stand seeing you in pain. Get right with God if you haven't already. He will carry you. He said,"Come unto Me, all who are weary, and I will give you rest." Bless you!

Answer 6

Yea of course I can understand your pain.. Don't think of dieing soon. Only nature will know when to call us.. Meanwhile, make yourself happy and others also happy be talking sweet memories. Think of your past life and success. Share it with your family members. Obviously, you will have grand child, Talk to the baby and forget your pain.

Answer 7

First of all I suggest that you never thing of dying but try to fight with this desease so you live for more time and unload your family burden. Please provide the detail of the cancerous part by giving E-Mail at [e-mail]. After consultation with matured BHMS doctor we can send you even the medicine free of cost or you can buy from the market.

Answer 8

I m sorry to hear that.Uncle,in a family father or grandfathers are never a burden.They must be loving you so much.And why are u thinking about death.enjoy the remaining days and let death be a surprise.think about someone u love.the happy days u spent.The pain will not vanish but at least be less.

Answer 9

iam extremely sorry to hear i can at the most sympatize with your case i feel badly hurt when somebody is having cancer and are suffering , because my mother died 4 months back due this dreaded disease .iwill pray for you may lord help you ease your pain& agony.may lord comfort you .see onething iwill tell you try to be happy & cheerup i can't write more than this i write this message to you with a great grief

Answer 10

I am sorry to hear that but you must be courageous and nobody dies before their time. Hang on...life is full of ups and downs... I wish you to be cured and to do something for yourself and others in the society. I wish to give hand but I don't know how except to pray for you.....May God be with you!