Have been seeing this guy for a few months, met online dating...we have great times together and know that he sees other woman, not sure of the extent... so far sex with him I have used condoms.... he is hinting around to stop using them... I have asked for him to be tested... he seems to be side stepping the issue. I have been tested and I am fine... What do you all think?
2006-12-11 23:52:06 · 26 answers · asked by gulfgolfpar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no glove no love.... use the condoms.... U are preventing 2things pregnancy and transmitted disease....
2006-12-11 23:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him squarely what his objection is to use of condoms. If you know that he sees other girls, you can ask him this too and tell him that he should get himself tested for STDs as some others might infect him. It is a matter of your health.
Is your relationship with him so important that you would consent to sex with him without a condom, when you know that you are not the only girl in his life? You need to rethink this relationship. Of course if you too like to have multiple partners but still want safer sex, then a condom should be insisted upon from all men.
2006-12-12 00:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think something is wrong in your head if you even have to ask this question. How can you not be aware of the possible risks of having unprotected sex? Do you not watch Oprah or any tv at all? He has not been tested. He is having sex with other people. Only he knows if he has been safe or unsafe in the past.
Of course you use a condom. Is your life worth the risk?
2006-12-11 23:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's seeing other women. Why are you having sex with him in the first place? Sex without a condom? Should be out of the question.
Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.
2006-12-12 00:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by namsaev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks he is responsible enough to have sex with out a condom then he should responsible enough to have a test done for HIV and STD's. Also if he cared about you enough he would not mind having the test just to make sure you are safe.
2006-12-11 23:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never have unprotected sex. Even married couples should use condoms to be on the safe side. The only time you don't use condoms is when you plan to get pregnant. Do you really think you're not going to get STD's just because your clean? You don't know if he is clean!
2006-12-11 23:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do not have sex without a condom. The current stats say that 1 in 6 people with HIV pass it on to their partners not intentionally but because they themselves dont know they are infected.
I suggest you tell him that the birth control you use is to regulate your cycle not to avoid pregnancy. This way it takes the conversation about condoms away from STD'S.
Explain to him that you are in no way interested in having children with someone right now....Especially someone who is not monogamous.
Have enough value in your own health. Dont have sex without condoms!!!!
2006-12-12 03:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let down the rules,, say look, i dont want aids and i dont want any other disease so i will not have s.e.x with u unless u get tested its the only way i can remain safe. if the only safe way to go is using a condom than so be it. you are you and once you get a disease from doing something you regret than you will realize hoe bone-headed u will be if u dont.
Good Luck With Everything
From Kimmy
2006-12-11 23:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i visit't tell if you're a real Indian or an somewhat sensible parody of an Indian! Or an Indian troll! a million) when you're both HIV unfavorable you received't get it till easily one of your cheats. 2) If he doesn't favor to have unprotected sex then take the *** from his condom and positioned it on your vagina to get a touch one. be certain he's HIV unfavorable before you're attempting this.
2016-11-25 22:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say this was a big no-no if he's still possibly screwing around with other girls.
As my old Dad used to say "If you can't be good, be careful!"
Wait until you're in a committed, monogamous relationship before even considering dispensing with the aid of barrier protection.
2006-12-12 00:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex with condoms is the safe way to go and it feels good. Don't give in.
2006-12-11 23:54:36 · answer #11 · answered by Jim G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋