I'm overally sensitive and am very deep thoughted about almost everything...I guess that's why i'm usually serious. But at home me and my dad were just bonding and laughing and everything and all of asuden out of nowhere he says YOU ARE VERY ANNOYING RIGHT NOW. All serious. Of coarse I stop jokeing around and knew he was serious. I just walked upstairs with out saying a word. Do I have the right to be upset? I mean now i'm second guessing myself at school. ((I'm usually quite but when I get to know the person I tend to talk a lot with out meaning to.)) I'm thinking about just stopping talking to people so much,rarely infact. Only to people that I'm super close to. PLEASE HELP. Do I have the right to be upset...
(Me and and my dad are super close so I guess that's why it hurt so much when he said that. He even added that I gave him a headache.)
2006-12-11 23:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by DreamfullAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes you have a right to be upset.
2006-12-11 23:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It hurt your feelings, but you should realize your dad loves you very much it sounds like but he might be having a bad day, or maybe even a headache, You must have bad days to right? or if your PMSing you know what that's like right, Well Just so you know Men PMS too. It is a proven fact. I have a 11 year old daughter that I love more than life itself, but sometimes I have a bad day and if she's anywhere around me at that time,"she gets it all" but I always remind her that I love her and I really don't mean to say those things and I explain to her why I did it. I tell her when I start yelling at her or anything to just walk to her bedroom or somewhere and to not take it to heart, and she does just that because she knows that I will come back around with apoligize and a big big hug and lots of I sorry honey's So I guess what I'm trying to say is try not taking it to heart even though it hurts sometimes because I'll guarantee you were at the wrong place at the wrong time and he didn't mean to take it out on you! Lots of experience from being your age and my dad doing the same thing to me now doing it to and realizing what parents do go through. Hope this helped your hurting heart alittle? sunnydays
2006-12-12 07:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any blow to the Psyche is difficult, especially if it is from a parent. I think you have the right to be upset. You need to talk to your dad about your feelings without being defensive. He sounds like he might be a lot like you. Children live, learn, love by the way their parents set the example. This is true unless they make a conscience effort to change.
2006-12-12 07:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sensitive that you maybe, your father may need some space...not only space but you have to understand he probably didn't mean it that way to hurt your feelings. Remember he's got alife to, meaning hes gotta relax like you'd wanna if you could. so maybe chill,ask him later...dad will come straight an tell you!!!!
2006-12-12 07:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by featherdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have the right to be upset because it hurt your feeling but the thing is instead of shutting down try talking to him and letting him know he hurt your feelings...he's not a mind reader if u don't tell him he'll never know how that comment affected you...
2006-12-12 07:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset.
Sounds like he switched moods all of a sudden.
2006-12-12 07:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have the right to be upset as you were being a pain is his backside.
2006-12-12 07:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him.....see what he says....maybe you did give him a headache....why is it ok for you to express your feelings but not ok for him...he is your dad....don't let one episode cause you to do something different in your life....you do need to lighten up some...good luck
2006-12-12 07:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you two need to seek medical help
2006-12-12 07:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋