Im an attractive older woman late thirties why do younger guys keep asking me out?
2006-12-11 23:38:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably want the chance to benefit from your "experience".
2006-12-11 23:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some younger guys try older women because of ..yes..experience, and also out of appreciation. Older women appreciate a man's attraction better than a younger woman. Some guys could just SUCK in bed, but an older woman has the patience and time to make it work and hell teach him a few things...a younger woman would degrade him to dirt, and ruin his pride if he doesn't come correct. SO, with that being said that can explain the 'sexual side' of their attraction.
Also there are cases where men are ahead of their time in maturity, and instead of dealing with the fast *ss girls their young age range prefer a more stable and sensible woman...which the 'ASSUMPTION' is that older women are more mature and ready to settle down.....which is highly not the case alot of times, i found that out the hard way. ANYWAY....that's pretty much my perception of the whole thing...i stopped chasing after older women though...suddenly I found myself dealing with 'mothers' rather than 'partners,' and it's annoying when someone cannot respect you as the person you are rather than the biased stereotype of....i'm 'younger'. So apparently some older women really never mature i find.
2006-12-12 07:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes.
I was 18. my first *cough* partner was ~12 yrs older than me with 2 children.
I knew her for about 6 months, did the odd spot of baby sitting (this was back in '78 before paedophilia was invented).... then one evening after coming back from a 'party plan' party, it just happened.
we didnt have a relationship (although I was very keen to push it further) but we did have quite a lot of sex.
older women are more experienced, confident and great teachers . Even now, 28 years later I would rather date an attractive lady in her 30's - or older - than some 18 - 20 yr old, no matter how good looking they thought they were.
2006-12-12 07:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Vinni and beer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I can truthfully say yes. Well, that counts for me anyway, dont want to generalize!
I think most guys find older women attractive because of their experience, sexual or otherwise and also because they like the feeling of being the younger, almost less "in control" party in the relationship.
2006-12-12 07:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Alex C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm definitely attracted to older guys, but the younger ones (men and women) keep asking me out, also. I think it is because the younger people are askiing EVERYONE out just to see if anyone will accept.
Go out with whoever you are attracted to. Nowadays, age is irrelevant.
2006-12-12 07:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by J89434 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny you should mention this...last week in work there was this guy who was giving me the eye...he was asking me all kinds of questions about myself and if i had a boyfriend etc...and eventually asked me out....i had to laugh because he was about the same age as my eldest son who's 22...i am 43, i was flattered that he was interested, unfortunately i had to turn him down because i am in a serious relationship...also the thought of dating someone the same age as my son was a huge turn off, didn't feel right for some reason....still flattering though....at least we still got it girl.....younger guys like older women, maybe because we have more life experience and are like a mother figure....not always true but that's the only answer i can think of....lol...good for you girl...x
2006-12-12 07:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 21 and i like older women. not too old but i have always thought that they are alot more fun in the sack on account that they accually know what thier doin and what they want sexually so it makes it more fun all together. that and some older women that i have been with have shown me some pretty cool things as far as foreplay goes.
2006-12-13 03:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older woman can be a fantasy for men and if you're fit there's no reason a man wouldn't ask you out!
2006-12-12 07:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by interestiblez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found it to be true . I am 40 and the young guys like me too.I asked HIM why that is and he says it's because older women know what they want . And also they are better in bed !
2006-12-12 07:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My b/f is 6 years younger than me, my grandfather was 11 years younger than my granny, younger men are awesome, I totally recommend you give one a try.
2006-12-12 07:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience always counts and age is not an issue till you reach 40
2006-12-12 07:43:15 · answer #11 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋