i used to be a self harmer... but i havent for 4 months... which is good for me. i threw out my blades so i wouldnt be tempted anymore. i have counselling and am on antidpressants, but i recently went out to find more blades. and for some reason i cant seem to get rid of them again. i feel stupid. i dont know why i feel like this again.
please dont respond sarcastically... i only want people to respond who understand.
2006-12-11 23:33:26 · 12 answers · asked by eve is it 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
well done!!!! 4 months you need to talk this through with a councilor or Friend, someone more real than someone in computer land there a real power that come s with being honest about personal struggles and that hold over wanting the blades around wont be so strong all the self harmer's i know have been abused so talking about this getting prayed for and healed from anything like that will help a lot
i used to sit on the road wanting to be ran over when i became a christian i have never looked back asking Jesus to come into my life and to take the pain away was the best thing i ever did
self harm can feel good and its something you can understand ! when your hurt and the blood comes out it makes sense why it hurts when in this messed up world so much else doesn't make sense so i wonder if having those blades around is a sense of security in your life it really is the wrong source of course i will pray for you if you want me too!
2006-12-11 23:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by sarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 07:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by dassler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eve - I am so proud of you for getting help for yourself. Did something happen (we call it trigger) you going out and buying more blades? An arguement, being hurt, feeling stressed with life in general??
Tell your counselor what happened and that you are having trouble getting rid of them now. She will likely tell you that you did this to have a "safety" net, but she will also help you to get rid of them.
All of us with MH disorders have setbacks...do not beat yourself up over this...its just a matter of getting back on top of things.
GBU
2006-12-12 01:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self abuse is filling a need you have. In a sense, you are comforted by this as are many others. You should try to find a replacement for this behavior that is not harmful to you. You should also see a professional to help guide you through and deal with any abuses that have been done to you. Sometimes, it is easier to feel physical pain than it is to feel emotional pain. So we have to re-train our mind and way of thinking to cope internally and not physically. Good luck and please see a professional!
2006-12-11 23:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by shaprice1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to completely stop, you know it makes you feel better so in your mind you want to do it again whether yo realize it or not, has anything hard been going on in your life lately? i know its hard but try not to continue, i know what thats like it took me a while to MOSTLY stop i still think about it when things get rough.. good luck
2006-12-11 23:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, it's ok, i used to be the same way, for about 5 years. it's a tough thing to stop, maybe something had happened that triggered you to want to cut again. just stay strong, stay on your meds, and just try to think positive..it's a long tough road but i've been there, and it will get better. i promise.
2006-12-11 23:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Team_Sleep205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read this
it helps me
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Suddenly
I desire to be an empty house
in an isolated village.
It should be bare and empty.
But pleasant,
with a fragrance long preserved,
and waiting for someone to move in.
An empty house
as clean and tidy as it might be,
yet open and simple,
from whence I can see the sky and the stars.
Someday
its master will open the door and enter,
softly saying, with a smile, "Oh I really like it."
It is clean and lovely as I desire it to be.
2006-12-12 00:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by kkamdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to make the choice to get rid of them. It's up to you to make that choice. You deserve to be happy and healthy, make the step in that direction by getting rid of them.
2006-12-11 23:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know much about it but I'd say stick with your therapist if he /she is helping and find a support group with others. Keep talking, I wish you well.
2006-12-11 23:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are facing some mental problem, my friend you will overcum your problem by yourself, by strength of mind., don't get nervous , you will get rid of this, take help from someone you trust.
2006-12-11 23:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋