I need some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have recently moved into a home together. afetr moving i found some really old condoms that I had in my drawer, most had gone out of date, me n my boyfriend do not use condoms as I am on the pill but I kept the condoms that had not gone out of date. yesterday he went into my drawer and saw the 2 or 3 I had in there and because there wasnt as many as before he accused me of cheating. I would never cheat and he knows that but after he did not tlk to me, he was funny with me all night and this morning before he went to work. I rang him and asked if I had done something and all he said was thats the point, you havent done anything. I asked him if he meant I hadnt helped tidy the stuff in our new room or if I hadnt pleased him and he said that I had done nothing. I am just confused, what does he mean? And what can I do to prove to him that I havent cheated even tho he knows that.
Please help me
2006-12-11 23:08:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont no why I kept them, I just did
2006-12-11 23:17:59 · update #1
It's a tough one this.
Why did you keep them if you're not using them?
I take it you told him why there wasn't as many? You could always fish them out the bin again?
Your man should trust you if you've just moved in together anyway. Give him time, he'll get over it
2006-12-11 23:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Richard E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely no idea!! Men - arrggghhhh!!
I suppose the only thing you can do is to go home tonight and talk to him about it.
Its a very strange thing for him to say! Does he mean you didn't tell him you were throwing the old ones out??? Clueless!!!
Sorry - good luck tonight!
2006-12-12 07:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good start together is it ?
he needs to get a life --- if he can't trust you now ( although you explained yourself perfectly well ) there is not much future there .
better pull him aside and get the gist of what will make a long term relationship work --- because if he can't come to terms , then you best try and get your bond back on your digs and go your own way -- he is a dead loss !! sorry !-but!
2006-12-12 07:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He took the condoms and now that he feels guilty he is trying to pass the blame, for the missing condoms, onto you
2006-12-12 07:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he's just throwing tantrums, since he knew you done nothing wrong.... cook him a nice meal...
2006-12-12 07:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by lenz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋