I've been going out with my girlfriend, for more than a year now, I love her with all my heart, and I know she does too, I am very sure that this girl is my soulmate, but she is still in school and I'm a student, and now her father doesn't want us to be together anymore, because she love me more than she loves him and he got jeallous, he doesn't even want us to talk to each other!!!!!!! What should I do?
2006-12-11 22:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait till you both become mature enough to look after your self independently , and that's the time you both be together again for ever .
2006-12-11 23:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing you have remember here (I do have a daughter and am a little on the experienced side) is that I remember what it was like when I was young and horny. I don't want to look back on all the nights staying up with her because she was sick, the seemingly endless nights of homework trying to give her all the options possible for the future that she could want, raising her, working my a*s off to support her, laugh with her, and love her, to have some young, punk sh*thead to come along and screw it all up. Most of the young people can't see 2 inches in front of their nose so alot of these situations end up in pregnancy, drug or alcohol abuse, or piercings to the face. So, If you really love her....really, really love her and your intentions are truly NOBLE, then you WILL have to get in good with her dad. That's the man. And trust me, dude, it'll only get easier then. I've actually known some dads that I continued to hang out with even after I found out that their daughter was an utter b**ch...lol
2006-12-11 23:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by D. L. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To start you need to speak to the father and find out what the real reason is because honestly the fact that his daughter loves you more the him is not it. Most fathers are very protective of their daughters and want the best for them. Maybe he just feels the two of you are too young to be this close and he is worried that she will get pregnant and that will be the end of her education. Either way you need to talk to him and tell him you respect his decision but you are not going to give up. Tell him that you love his daughter and whatever or however long it takes to win his respect and approval you will do it. You are not giving up, you love her and want her to be apart of your life. When he sees you are serious he will bend. He only wants the best for his daughter. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-11 23:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i thik u have assumed too many things here .
u r too sure of ur self and her at too early an age . i could be infatuation at ur age . wait for u both to grow up and experience the world a bit longer.
she loves u more hen her faher ? now this is surely ur own conclusin . i am sure even ur girl didnt tell u his herself . so stop drawing conclusions.
this is pure protection from a father for her girl whom he knows is too young to have this affair .
just let the time pass and if u r really made for each other then sure thats tha way it will end for u both .
2006-12-11 23:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a father figure for ya. Dude, this is just the beginning. The reason he does this is cause he doesn't want anyone replacing him as the man in her life. I don't think it has anything to do with you two loving each other. It's just that he doesn't want to lose her.
I'd fill her in on this tidbit, since it looks like shes the only one who can solve this.
2006-12-11 23:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just wants to see how much you love each other or you love his daughter. ye tell the father just how much and what you will bring to the relationship and stuff like that. if you are afraid of the father he will think you are no good for his daughter im not saying to hit him at all a man talks his way out not bashes is way out not that you are trying to get out you need to prove to him how much you love his daughter (id do the same) to test you. good luck
2006-12-11 23:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you two in high school?....maybe the father just wants her to concentrate on school...back off a little..respect the father's wishes....maybe on weekends go over not too see her but offer to mow the lawn or something....unless there is something weird going on with father and daughter..I can't imagine a daughter loving her boyfriend more than her own dad...love for dear old dad is different from love for boyfriend...don't compete when there is no competition....your students concentrate on that......if you and her are meant to be...you'll find your way back to each other...
2006-12-11 23:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be patient. Never deliberately cause a rift between father & daughter, if she ever had to choose it is very possible she would choose him. It is up to her to try smooth things out. He will hopefully learn to accept you & even like you. He will hopefully see that ye are together & willing together even through the hassles & will learn to accept it.
2006-12-11 23:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by suzanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every father hates his daughters boyfriend(s).
Its not uncommon that he dislikes you. What you could do is try to soclalize with him and get him to warm up to you, its male bonding.
2006-12-11 23:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Estevan R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't say that she love you more that she love her dad,because there is lot kind of love,.like here i love my dad but in a completely different way that i love my boyfriend...
and that you still young so get a life.
2006-12-11 23:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by rashid j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋