I love this girl in class and we plan on getting informally married because we are still only 12...is it too early?
2006-12-11 22:44:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you sure you really love her? Is it just animal lust?
2006-12-11 22:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh... puppy love. yes, it's really early to be in a relationship, especially when both are decided to get married. Give yourselves time. Finding real love doesn't go that fast. It takes time and getting to know each other, a LOT. There's so much things to enjoy in life especially when you're young! Make use of your youthfulness 'cause you won't be young foever. Marriage is a totally different thing.. it isn't a game.. it might be harde than you think and it takes a lot of experiences in life... it may seem to be easy when you're young but as you grow up and become more mature, your outlook in life and on things grow as well. When I say enjoy your youth, that means, no accidents with girls. Wait until yo're both in legal age... besides, 12 is a minor age and the law doesn't allow marriage for that age. Depends on which country you live though...
2006-12-12 06:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You`re never going to believe this!
When I was ten years old, I got "married" to this boy who was only six at the time and who lived on the same street as me and my family!!!
I thought he was so cute and I quite fancied him at the time so his older brother, who was eight, got his father`s bible out of the study and he used that to "marry" us!
When their mother eventually found out about what we had been up to, she took all her wrath out on me because I was the oldest child involved in this game.
I was so embarrassed!
How unfair is that?
I was only a ten-year old little girl!
Regarding your personal situation, are you also talking about a fake marriage?
If not, who has agreed to perform the ceremony?
Are both your parents aware of this "union"?
Are you intending on consuming this marriage?
I would say you are both still too young because you never know what`s around the corner.
You might meet the girl of your dreams, your future wife and the mother of your children in your late teens or early twenties while you`re attending college and then what?
You`re just going to dump your child bride?
Think about it!
Live a little!
Love a little!
You have got so much more to go through and experience before settling down with anyone!
Enjoy your life, your freedom and your youth!
Stay single and don`t get married just yet.
Date that girl from your class, by all means, but don`t make such a huge commitment at such a young age!
You`ll only live to regret it!
You`ll see.
2006-12-12 07:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, yeah. 12 is really early... Although, I know people who got married at 14... Trust me, don't get married until you get older. Sadly, people these days (mostly celebrities) portray marriage as something you do every year. I just cant imagine a 12 year old falling in love or describing what love is. I think its more of a puppy-love if anything. Slow down and enjoy your life!
2006-12-12 06:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lunacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too early not too early depend on how you can handle a case with maturity. To say the reality is too early, because you are too young for a broken heart and affection control.
2006-12-12 07:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by ooo my God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in 10 years time when you are 22 , you will wish to be 12 again. because life has alot of complications and challenges. they are not nessarily bad, but is not a childs problem. marriage is not for children and it is wonderful when you are able to handle it and live with some one when you are older.
dont you think you should enjoy your childhood at 12 because you cant go reverse gear in life.
you should go to school to study. get a good degree and find a job first. life is easier to handle wen you have money and a good job.
Be wise. be her friend.
2006-12-12 06:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first girlfriend was 10. Its not too early for you. But "marriage" is out of the question at your age. Wait.
2006-12-12 06:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by K-Deeznuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dear, it is way too early for you...
at least wait until you are 15 or 16 but even at that age don't even think of marriage yet...
I mean, I'm 22 and I still think marriage can wait
2006-12-12 06:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too early for you guys
2006-12-12 06:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by shelly_cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its way too early
2006-12-12 06:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, if you and your parents think it is OK then i guess it is, but much is going to happen. Don't just get a girlfriend to be a showoff. If you get one you need to care and like for who she is not for what your buddies think. i have a lot of experience with this kind of thing. hey I'm 14.
2006-12-12 06:50:15 · answer #11 · answered by Josh b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋