My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2dec.1MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-11 22:24:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are an idiot. You didn't send 2 messages back to him "by chance". You have the option of blocking messages.
2006-12-11 22:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore.these recent mesgs u got i guess r just jokes.donot let anyone abuse u so much for no mistake of urs.he is not worth of u so leave it and go on with life u will find a better man in future.
2006-12-12 06:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by reena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with this guy or rather, lunatic??
My Dear, since he believes his friends more than you then he should date them and leave you alone.
He's really messing up with you so leave the imbecile and move on. There are other guys who are abusive-free that will love, respect you and take you for who you are.
Except if you like being harassed and molested, then carry on. That way, we'll know that not only is the guy a lunatic but you've also got serious issues as well.
2006-12-12 06:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
_Never_ forgive a guy that abuses you like that. He's not worth it, especially because all you did was dance with another guy. If he was really a good person he would never send you those offending messages. I'm thinking the message might have been a joke anyway.
2006-12-12 06:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really curious about one thing in such cases, and i'm going to answer through one question: Why is it that you would even consider him looking for you again. Littlegirl, let me tell you one thing: we live the days when we can look for guys, when we can dump guys, when we can make the choice as to whom we like, whom we want and whom not!
You're certainly a great woman, no matter age, experience, or any other such issues. Act like it!
2006-12-12 06:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by elf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be careful with this guy sounds like a real winner to me.get some help for yourself and stay away from him you shouldn't have to put up with his crap.
2006-12-12 06:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Louis K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to leave...keep away from people like this...it's no way to go through life.
2006-12-12 06:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take your phone to the police. surely, you saved those messages. the police should talk to him and discourage future contact.
2006-12-12 06:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him,move on.
2006-12-12 06:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by younglakshmimittal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋