my husband drinks alot. about one 70cc bottle of famoous grouse in 2 days. iam fed up with this . he is nice, & caring. but he dont give time to the chilldren. anybody can help me out of this
2006-12-11 22:12:47 · 10 answers · asked by wE r MuScUlAr 4 in Food & Drink ➔ Non-Alcoholic Drinks
Honestly, 70cc in 2 days is not much. I have drank like 30cc of vodka in 15 muntes once. Of course, I ended up puking on my girlfriends baby that night.
Sorry let me get back to your question... I don't think alcohol is the only problem. Could it be that he wants more appreciation from his kids and wife? Try treating him like a master and let him watch football with peace and quiet. I say this because a man just want to rest after a hard day of work. It is truly priceless.
2006-12-11 22:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lunacy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been sober for 22 years, that's not bragging, it's how I stay alive. How does he act when he's not drinking? Is there a Jeckyll and Hyde personality ? It doesn't matter if he only has one glass a day, if he's got to have it, there's a problem. In my case,and in the case of anyone that's had a run in with the bottle, one glass is too much, and a thousand isn't enough.
2006-12-12 07:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by sluggo1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One shot a day is not nearly enough to gain the full health benefit of alcohol. He should be polishing off the whole 70 cc bottle.
You may not agree. If that's the case, you could hide the bottle in your hair.
2006-12-12 07:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dealt with a similar problem with someone I love. Some people have addictive behaviors that are hard to overcome. Talk to him when he's sober and explain your frustration and tell him you're willing to support him if he gets help, otherwise, you may need to use some kind of ultimatum.Sometimes the only way for someone to realize they have a problem is to see they may lose the people and relationships in their lives that keep them going and make them happy.
2006-12-12 06:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem and told mine to choose between us or the alcohol. He said he chose us but he kept drinking. I stuck with him for 20 months after the first conversation and then up and left him. 2 months later he quit drinking (too late for the two of us to work anything out, but not too late for his relationship with our son). 3 years later and I am still glad I made the move. Wish I had done it sooner and not wasted all that time.
2006-12-12 06:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jezebel's Revenge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you met him and he was like that you have no one to blame but yourself. If he started drinking habit then maybe you can get him into counseling with you so you both can try to work it out. People only change when they want to. So if he doesn't want to give up booze for you and the kids leave him until he finds out what is more important to him.
2006-12-12 06:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is 35 cc a day..... Practically nothing. And he has got good taste. That is why he puts up with you... Get a life
2006-12-12 06:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Willem V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TIME TO BAIL OUT , IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO GET HELP
2006-12-12 06:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
video tape him when he is drunk and show him how stupid he looks when he is sober.
2006-12-12 06:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by mack j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him when he's not drunk.
2006-12-12 06:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by quincy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋