I got my girfriend to do something while we were having sex the other nite. She told me after that she didnt like it and now shes being very standoffish with me. Will she get over it or have i damaged our relationship permanently?
2006-12-11 21:53:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant say exactly what i did coz its kinda dirty and the administrator will remove the question
2006-12-11 21:56:28 · update #1
Apologise to her, let her know that you're really sorry and make sure she knows that you made a mistake and promise to always let her have control in these circumstances and ask what you can do to make it up to her.
She probably will get over it, but depending on what it was you did, you may have caused a little emotional damage. If your girlfriend made you wear a mask of your best mate while she did you with a strap-on against your will, you'd probably be thinking "Why would she make me do this if she really loved me???". Hopefully that's far more bizarre than what you got her to do, but she'll probably be thinking along the same lines.
You took a step outside the circle of trust!
2006-12-11 21:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication, communication, communication. The foundation
of any successful relationship. In the future, talk about these things at least a few minutes before to feel the situation out. If you get bad vibes, then no. I don't know what you got her to do, but I suggest you bring it out in the open soon and discuss it. She may feel cheap now or think that you think she's cheap. Then she may feel like your not the person she thought you were because of what you had her do. Whatever, you still have to talk.
2006-12-12 05:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by aka white knight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's quit possible she thinks you are a freak. The only way around this is to get her to talk to you about how she feels about it. If it turns out that she does think you are a freak then you are S.O.L Maybe she just plain disliked what you did or maybe you just didn't do it right. You have to talk to her' that's the only way you will know.
2006-12-12 06:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels very dirty right now so talk to her & tell her it wasn't your intentions to belittle her. You need to reasure her that you were just trying to spice up your life But talk her cause I promise she feels very dirty!
2006-12-12 06:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't tell you she didn't like it at the time, and you haven't tried to persuade her to do it again since she told you, you've done nothing wrong. She'll get over it.
2006-12-12 05:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her sory for it but at he same time also remind her to not give in to something which she dont want to try or like
it is not ur mistake completely if u didnt force her to do it against her wish .
2006-12-12 06:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she let you do it/or did it. she may not of liked it but, since she was willing at the time, she will probally get over it. Just dont try to get her to do it again!
2006-12-12 05:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy..you are either hooped...or you have to try and fix your relationship ..to what-ever the problem you caused..maybe she does need a little time..and space..with your requests...
what does she like.. ask her for options and advice..
she will tell you straight up..!! Dan are you the man..to ask..?.
2006-12-12 06:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what you got her to do... Could be that she was very freaked by it and you may never recover from it, cos she won't be able to trust you...
2006-12-12 05:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you were wrong no wonder you can not even mention what it was you did. try an apology and swear upom smeone dear that never again will that happen.
2006-12-12 06:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by yamulilo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋