If your girlfriend is a virgin, and you are not how long would you wait? Should you mention the topic? How long do you think is too long?
2006-12-11 20:42:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should listen to the people on here that say respect her wishes. Don't ask her to have sex with you. It's better to find out why she has decided to remain a virgin.
If you flat out ask her to have sex then you would come off as a jerk. And for Godsakes!, if she says she isn't going to have sex with you don't force her and don't ask her about it again.
'Cause if you do she may feel like you are pressuring her.. and not every girl give into pressure... it actually pisses some of us off.
My being a virgin is one of the biggest reason why my 2 yr relationship ended. He was a great person in general but when it came to that issue he was an a**! I got tired of him asking, especially since I told him that I wouldn't from the beginning.
By the way my reasons had nothing to do with waiting till I'm married. For me it had to do with my still being in college and not wanting to have to deal with all the s**t that comes along with sex at the moment. I'd prefer to take on that responsibility when the lock I turn is my own and not some college dorm or some relatives.
Her reasons maybe different and only she can tell you what they are.
So good luck.
2006-12-11 21:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-11 21:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by i am not a lovely girl i am cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know why she is a virgin, just not ready yet? Or maybe saving herself for marriage? Yeah there are still some of those girls out there! I wouldn't bring it up (directly) it may come off as pushy, let her decide, but if you're the type who doesn't want to wait, I'd find out if it is a marriage thing and get out of it.
2006-12-11 20:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a Gent and wait for her mention it. You'll wait as long as it takes, if you feel shes worth it.
2006-12-11 20:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Craig L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until she's ready, really. She'll probably let you know.
If you're in a sensible sort of relationship you both should be able to discuss it. Don't pressure her, but don't make such a big deal of it that she gets scared off either.
2006-12-11 20:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by poptop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no to long, you wiat untill shes ready, you can mention it, dont do it in a way that sounds pushy or aggressive just ask her what she thinks about the subject and go from there
2006-12-11 20:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by kydd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess untill she is ready or just make her romantic dinner, candles, wine, bubble bath, you in just a apron, nothing else and go with the moment and she might surprise you
2006-12-11 20:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by hotty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not bring up the topic. Respect her. Leave it up to her to bring up the topic.
2006-12-11 20:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by velveeta00 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should not be waiting...she is a virgin for a reason...she is probably waiting for marriage....respect that and don't even ask her...she isn't going to sleep with you retard.
2006-12-11 20:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being patient itsnot bad...u respect her thats y and love her too...if u like to do that to her..ask her to marry u...theres also lot of girls believe that giving urself to someone is a sacred one....
2006-12-11 20:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by shesmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋