i think im in love with one of my really close friends who i have known for years her name is karen jones she is just the best just looking at her she is so nice looking and everything but now ive been told she apparently has a boyfriend but he doesnt live around here i dont no what to do i just want to be with her all the time should i tell her my feelings or not please help me i need you
2006-12-11 20:27:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we even have the same nickname im crazy j and she is crazy kaz i tell u i was put on this earth to be with her what can i do
2006-12-12 01:10:05 · update #1
you kno jason i hope that u hav found ur true love bcoz its never tat easy to fall in love with a fren. dont worry she"ll accept u coz u"ve been with her most of the time. theres only one possible way try to bring her for a dinner and tell her that u have a special feeling for her n that u want to bring ur frenship to a new level where u can always care for her n be there wen she needs u always. try being honest n caring.... gals juz luv tat way... wish u gud luck... oops 4gt to say find wat she likes n impress her on that day.. giv her the feeling that theres no one els who could understand her more than u do. (wink) ;>
2006-12-11 20:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by gazxz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're damned if you do .. and you're damned if you dont
If you do, you could risk causing 'weirdness' between friends ..
and if you dont .. you will wonder for the rest of your life 'what if'
so, write the pro's & con's of telling her ...
ahhh, JUST TELL HER!!
If shes a true friend and doesnt feel the same.. the friendship should remain strong ..
and you just never know ... maybe somewhere deep down .. she may have wondered the same thing ...
GOOD luck with your decision
2006-12-12 04:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if she has a boyfriend first like asking "indirect question" about her love life.
If she has a boyfriend then you are out of luck.
If she doesn't then tell her your feelings and if she rejects you then too bad. It's not mutual then. Nothing is perfect ...
2006-12-12 04:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u are saying that she has bf dont tell her right now,
what u do is tell ur love indirectly
that is
show her how much u care for her
how much u think of her
know her likes and dislikes and do what she likes etc
2006-12-12 04:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by rick hei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what friends are NOT for to fall in love with lol yea you only have one life to live why not express yourself to her maybe she feels the same way about you gl
2006-12-12 04:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her my frnd , tell her
You are close frnd from many years, she won't take you otherwise.
There is no problem in telling her, go ahead and tell her how you really feel
If she is really a close frnd , you can also bring some roses for her
Or chocolates if she likes it :)
Good Luck !!!!!
2006-12-12 04:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend, I'm sorry to say that you need to move on.
2006-12-12 04:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings nd what so ever her answer u have to accept if u really love her
2006-12-12 04:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally, i think she thinks your gay, specially if your hair is like your Avatars'.....lol....dats y she didnt express her feelings instead she got a bf to keep the gayness(not sure if its a real word.lol.) away......duece.
2006-12-12 04:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Right 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time, go for it,before you lose your chance! It happened to me!
2006-12-12 04:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋