we were very close friends who did everything together like bestfriends, that's how i saw our relationship. But he liked me as in more than bestfriends. I knew that but I did'nt see him in that way. So this other guy comes along who I thought was more of my type, I recently had a baby by him and he's nothing what I expected. Now I'm missing the things me and the other guy use to do together. would you tell the other guy how ur feeling not saying for the reason of trying to get with him but can he forgive u and continue being friends?
2006-12-11 20:20:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if I were him I would be very cautious and you had better be willing to do ANYTHING to get him back personally I would not want you back if he does take you you had better be REAL GOOD TO HIM if you lose him it's all your fault
2006-12-11 20:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault, who's there to blame? Blame the 'so-call' your type guy !!! It's totally your fault, so take the responsibility and raise the baby ! Plus, you were mentioned that he wanted to be more than best friend but then you turn your back and went with another guy and boom ... he made you pregnant. Now, you want to go back to your 'old' best friend? .. If i were him, i won't even bother to date or hang out with you. Maybe will become the 'Hi' then "Bye" type of friend. You girls only want to go for the best - without considered the one that already treated you good, the one who's always there when you need help! As for your situation, you deserve every consequences . . .
2006-12-12 04:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably hurt him really badly. You need to tell him what you just told all of us, and ask him to forgive you. However, don't be surprised if he's written you off. After all, if he was 'such a good friend' why did you stop seeing him and hanging out after meeting mr. daddy? He might not want to be friends anymore. Sorry, that sucks but we all make mistakes, and some cost more than we thought they would.
2006-12-12 04:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be tough for him. Considering you were really close friends and he wanted to be more than that, it could hurt spending time with you. Some people are all or nothing. However many are not, but it would be unfair if by being friends, it starts leading him on, because it will just hurt him more.
2006-12-12 04:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by green_178 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be hard for him to hear, he may turn you down, but he may be thrilled. Think about it a little more and it sounds cliche but do what your heart tells you. Don't be scared of rejection because youll just keep thinking about this until you really know.
2006-12-12 04:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Christines256 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dun tell him ur feeling first,jus call n see if the friendship still works? if it still works,then stay as normal pal first till u can sense his care n love is still there more or less then u slowly start to hint
all the best to u
2006-12-12 04:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and tell him how you feel and be honest and say we have to give this another shot he should be happy if he asked you out the first time.
2006-12-12 04:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
simmilar to my situation, we arent together because its the best thing for us but we are the best of friends!. hope it all goes well.
2006-12-12 04:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don\'t do it,just feel this
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2006-12-12 04:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋