i feel like im always singled out by him, without any provocation on my part. one day i feel as if i'll just stop speaking to him, and move somewhere where i never have to see him again, if thats what it takes to stop being treated that way
2006-12-11 20:16:04 · 7 answers · asked by Playdint3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just live with it as you can possibly handle. Its still your Dad after all. The answers here are pretty good, talk to him. After that, there should be some improvements because he will know your feelings and reasons and vice versa.
Good luck.
2006-12-11 20:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was old enough to leave home, I didn't talk to anyone in my family for 15 years. I'm finally talking to some of them. If all he does is pull you down, why do you want to hang around? So you're stuck til you 18 or so and can work, but after that there's no reason to feel guilty over leaving. If your mom is good to you, just keep in contact with her.
2006-12-12 04:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess this is a phase most of us go through. Communication is the answer to all such problems, Are you sure theres nothing about you that annoys him. If it does i think you should go speak to him and let your heart out. But let me tell you one thing choose your words wisely, get a little emotional where it needs to be but let him know how you feel and hear him out too. Lets see what happens, communicationg helps a lot i think this gap would be bridged through this effort of yours. Good luck!
2006-12-12 05:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by MO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's most likely because of his childhood and upbringing. Try to understand the circumstances he was raised in. Ask him about what it was like growing up. make an effort to find out what pisses him off and try to avoid doing those things. If he is being utterly irrational, just avoid him, but first explain that you don't exactly appreciate his behavior towards you.
2006-12-12 04:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by velveeta00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn''t mention your age. If you're mature enough, have a conversation with him.
2006-12-12 07:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he your biological dad? Is there something you or He did with or to each other?Do you remind Him of something He regrets?Resents?
2006-12-12 04:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by knowlegeSeeker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him
2006-12-12 04:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋