jason and i have been talking and we liked eachother. but i started really liking his friend brian. i told the truth and told brian i like him. i shouldn't have told him because it was way too early. but he said lets get to know eachother better but after a couple of days i told him lets just be friends because i thought i was going to get hurt. he called me when he got back from florida and asked if i can come out but i already had plans for that day. how can we get to know eachother better if we barely call eachother or hang out? could it be that he is testing me by keeping a distance because he thinks he might end up like his friend jason? or am i just wasting my time?
2006-12-11 20:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, I think maybe hes waiting for yuo to make the first move, since he called you when yuo got back and you were busy, he probably thought you changed your mind, If you really want to get to know him call him and make the first move. good luck.
2006-12-11 20:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, the problem is you. You liked jason, then you liked his friend brian, then you told brian 'let's just be friends' which, sorry to break it to you, means "I think you're gross and we'll never hook up" in guy talk. Then you wonder why Brian doesn't call, and ask what kind of game HE'S playing.
lol sorry honey but these poor guys don't know what the hell you're thinking. You basically burned both of them. Like kathryn above me said, you'll figure it out soon enough. Anyone can have trouble with this stuff.
2006-12-12 04:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
j bear, i think it was only a thing of not having the same schedule in that particular day..whenever u feel down, just think tomorrow will be better. really try to get to know him better before gettin ur hopes up and make time for him..u ask him out if u're brave..nothin too over the top, just go do smth guys like to spend their time with.
2006-12-12 04:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by krissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u sorta made a mistake by telling Brian. You kinda broke "the code" : BROS BEFORE HOESZ !
Guess where u stand now...They will just use you. They will not take you seriously. They will find another girl after they r done using you. Sorry....
Truth Hurts.
2006-12-12 04:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
but what happened to jason??? you are just wasting time on brian.. he's just taking you for granted.. if he wants to get to know you why did'nt he spend some time with you when he had that chance.
2006-12-12 04:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kind of shallow on your part you switch from one to the other and expect him to run after you like a dog in heat but when he calls "you already have plans " what were these plans and with who ? male or female ? bet I can guess !
2006-12-12 04:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you think about what kind of person you want to be with. Not put names, but personality things, then see who fits the list the best.
2006-12-12 04:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hedge your bet too much! Fortune favours the brave. If you have a foot on two boats, when they drfit apart, you land smack in the middle and into the water.
2006-12-12 04:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're confused yourself. You need to first strengthen your thoughts otherwise you're right to say that you're wasting your time.
2006-12-12 04:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are wasting everyone's time.
Do you even know what you want?
Or who you want?
2006-12-12 06:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋