My best friend’s older brother is 19, and I am 17. He is still living at home since he goes to community college, and works close by his parent’s house.
He’s not real open about girls he likes, and is really into video games, cars, and stuff like that so he doesn’t really spend much time with girls other than when I’m over, or when his sister’s other friends are over.
He kind of seems to like me; he shows off a lot when I’m around, and sometimes teases me or smiles at me. But I can’t tell if he just thinks of me as a little sister.
I’m going to be over at their house tomorrow doing homework, what are some things I could say to get an idea of how he feels?
2006-12-11 20:08:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flirt with him however you usually flirt. Smile/pay attention to him, etc.
2006-12-11 20:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start up a conversation like this:
Homework is hard, but you know whats tougher? Guys... not to down right you or anything, just thought about my mom who has so much hard time trying to figure out what my dad wants, he could at least just tell her...
(Speak in a normal toned voice, no sarcasm please...)
Continue with: Well your a guy and I just wondered...how do you know what a guy likes? (speak in a more casual tone and if you dared take a peep at his expresion but not so long or else you'll get nervous, do your work in front of him)
(with your head still bent down to your work continue to say): How do you know when a guy likes you?
____________________________________________________This conversation has been tested. This way, you wont get too embarrased and he'll tell you himself. if he does try to hint you that he likes you like a sister...swallow it whole... also get ready for his questoins like "why suddenly intersted?" or " what did you say again?" the key is to act smooth...just smooth...
2006-12-12 04:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usaully when people use the term of " i think of you as a sister/brother" it means god i want you so badly but dont know how to go about it, now back to your question, i would say to ask him what he thinks about you, but he will just drop the line of, "well i think of you like a sis" and thats not what your lookin for, so i would just flat out ask him, or have his sister do it for you
2006-12-12 04:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by kydd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever noticed one small point "Did he ever opened his vallet and showed any one while your view is on him?" If so you are teased and you will end up in trouble in his company. If not you may ask that small question " Are you born for me, as I feel, I am for you"!!!
2006-12-12 04:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are no list of things you have to remember...
you heart will get to know ,,,,,,whn you hear the bells
2006-12-12 04:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋