.i love a guy since 4 months.he too loves me .but he has an x. we have talk to each other only a few times.in d month of october he has again proposed to his x but it seems dat she told she is in love with an another guy .after some days another boy named kiran started loving me .then my lover dint talk to me .he dint even show a sign of love .i was really fed up and i said my frnd to ask him wheather he loves me or not .when my frnd asked him , he said "dont talk abt her and y r u just talking abt her and torchering me?"den i dint talk to him.den my frnds too asked him a lot and a lot of times weather he loves me.but it seems dat he wont even answer .it sems dat he will just say "i dont know".den on dec1 he atlast asked me directly wheather i love him or not .i said yes .den it was fine but sterday he asked my frnd wheather i love dat kiran.she said no .but he was keeping onon asking to her..wat should i do now ?should i go &tell dat i dont love anyone or leave it like dat
2006-12-11 20:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur boy friend is fit for nothing guy ... he is not even worth ur love u have to find someone more sensible then the two ... i donno wat kind of guy is ur kiran ... but go for better nature person then one who is changing so regularly .. who knows he might change again .. it is only ur ego which is not allowing him to go ...
2006-12-15 01:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sansita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"oh my child, u r in a wrong interpretation that u r in love. What ever u r doing is just innocent mistake. Do not name it as love.
Love is not an apple, you have it when u like and throw when dont like. Kid, start any relationship just as friends. One u will find feel the true love in one of ur friends.........Have fun...but dont mess up ur life.... "
I couldnt agree with this more. judging by your broken "aol-IM" typing, your young. You need to take things a little slower and stop using that great feeling's 4 letter word so lightly. If you care about this person intimately then try spending time. Also, talk to him face to face. Don't send your friends as messangers! Your relationship will thrive so much more if your honest and up front with each other. If he does like this other person, then so be it. If you care for another, let it be. BUT don't pass notes, send messangers, or "beat around the bush" in any way. Try to be honest with each other then, if it IS meant to be, then you will truely understand that word you throw around.
2006-12-11 20:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On going through with all your Narration it seems to me that either you are confused or your friend.In only 4 months tell me how many times you met each other and what are his likes and dislikes what are the food he likes to eat and above all whether he has completed his education and started earning or Not.Further in which house he dwells ? whether he owned or living on rental ? Is he earning enough to keep you and your family happy in future ? ask all these question to your Heart and think about the Love is a real and true love or Not dear.Make a friendship first Love will follow soon.
2006-12-11 20:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,take your "messenger friend "out of the equation immediately.Friends like her will muck things up fast,and you should'nt be asking something like that from a friend anyway.Let her live her own life.A guy does'nt want to talk to a girl who is so into gossip and games.Be more direct,it'll show that you're not insecure.Plus ,open communication is good practice for you boh.I mean who's relationship is this,your's,or your friends?
2006-12-11 20:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my child, u r in a wrong interpretation that u r in love. What ever u r doing is just innocent mistake. Do not name it as love.
Love is not an apple, you have it when u like and throw when dont like. Kid, start any relationship just as friends. One u will find feel the true love in one of ur friends.........Have fun...but dont mess up ur life....
2006-12-11 20:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by arun k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ans of ur question is u shouldn't go back to tht guy, u understand whn he became startin to love his x at tht time did he ever imagine abt u?, and whn his x refused him , he got here back to u, so u ought to understand he's only playin with ur emotions, and if u thinks tht yet another guy, named kiran is fairly lovin u then u can visit him, think if his x will come again to him, thn how u may be constructive tht he will refuse her.... he can leave u for her.... and u stated tht he became keepin on askin ur frnd abt u and kiran , so this is truth tht he do not believes u......
2016-10-18 03:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is confussed right now. and will be just using you to forget about his past. the fact that he said he didnt know if he loves you proves he's confussed. dont address his sympathy for love it will ruin what you built.. give it time..
2006-12-11 20:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be truth full to your friend coz' it may cause some serious problem in future just tell him frankly & try to be a healthy relation ship in future.
2006-12-11 21:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by navneet k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must explain that will reduce the guys problems
and will make him feel better
u both can be friends instead
2006-12-11 21:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by sweetboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he not sure tht u r in luv...if he asks u again then ask him to prove it to u tht he doesnt loves his x as well.....if u would ask him to do tht then he wud realize tht how difficult it is to prove tht u luv someone....but apart frm tht jus tell him once clearly whom u luv...
2006-12-11 21:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by kusum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋