My borderline friend is sucking the life out of me, i don't know how i can keep going. it hurts so deeply. it hurts knowing how much pain she is and not being able to do anything to take her pain away for her. her lies, accusations and anger hurt. The constant bitterness and resentment she has toward me for trying to help. But mostly the blame. i am falling apart i feel like i'm on the edge and soon i'll fall. She is sucking the life out of me. I love her so much but i'm falling. i don't want to walk away from her, yes i have thought about it, it would be so much easier, but i don't want to and more than that i can't abandon her i care about her too much to just walk away. I'm already seeing a counsellor, though i don't know if it's doing much. I am still feeling mentally and emotionally exhausted. I feel helpess and depressed. Please tell me what i can to. i can't walk away from her and counselling isn't working for me. help
2006-12-11 19:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by colonel 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You are in danger of experiencing a mental breakdown. if that happens, what good will you be able to do for your friend? Are you helping her even now? At some point you will have to accept that there is nothing you can do for her. Remaining with her will only damage you and she will still be sick.
2006-12-11 20:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling only helps if two attend. If there is something wrong with her and she is in denial and you try to help her you will upset her and you will see the anger and resentment. If you continue in this situation you will destroy yourself. Try taking abreak from her. 2-3 weeks then try again with a new approach. Is this your girl friend?
2006-12-11 20:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by desertlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the women and children to bed and go lookin' for f'n dinner.
2016-05-23 08:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about it and talk to her, i'm sure she'll understand. Tell her how you feel about her treating you that way.
2006-12-11 20:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by shelley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋