2006-12-11 19:32:01 · 26 answers · asked by pranavkirwadi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the hell is with all the "What is Love" questions?!
2006-12-11 19:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definition of Love
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LOVE
There is no time limit. Love can come in 1 second or it may take 50 years.
But love has a quality. If the quality is there then it is love, Even after 100 years, if the quality is not there then it is not love. It is not a matter of time.
LOVE means that you only have a desire to make your object of love happy without any selfish personal desire. Love is selfless.
That is quite a tall order to fulfill, but when it is there, it is there and you have it!
If you are trying to satisfy yourself in the relationship then you are under the influence of lust, anger, greed, etc. It is not pure love.
PURE LOVE means unmotivated and uninterrupted. 24X7 I think of you.
Pure love is even devoid of sex desire, though you may reciprocate sexually with your object of love to please them. When you have pure exclusive love for someone then you are essentially desireless. You only desire their happiness and their happiness is the source of your happiness--to the point that if they become happy by giving you distress, then you will take your own distress as your greatest happiness...because it makes them happy.
These are very elavated concepts of love and not ordinarily attainable on the material platform.
These are generally realized in our eternal personal relationship with God, who is really the only one worthy of such a high degree of love, and even then it is rarely attained.
This is the conclusive answer to your question...
1.Saying anything is good when the words spoken are:
a. Truthful,
b. Pleasing,
c. Beneficial and
d. Not agitating to others
If saying "I love you" passes these four quality checks, then it is a good thing to say.
If the person:
1. Does not love you
2, Does not say it in a pleasing manner
3. Does not say it to a person who values it
4. Agitates the person being told by saying it
Then it should not be said even if genuinely felt.
Saying "I love you" is not a question of QUANTITY, but is rathe a question of QUALITY.
What is the meaning of LOVE? That is the most important thing. Maybe a person with good intentions is saying "I love you" but they do not in fact love you. They may not understand what love is and are misled into thinking they love you when they actually lust after you.
Repeatedly saying "I love you" does not cause the phrase to lose its meaning. It only loses its meaning when you no longer truly love the person. That's when saying it becomes meaningless. Quantity nevers dilutes it, only a lack of quality.
So keep saying it as long as you have it with the above considerations in mind. If you truly undertand the meaning of "I love you" and if the person saying it actually does, then you will never tire of hearing it and you would rather desires that he had millions of mouths and you had millions of ears to hear it!
That you are not relishing it now means something is amiss in your understanding and appreciation or the actual quality of his or you feelings. Most likely that lust, anger and/or greed has entered and corrupted the motivations underlying the relatationship leading to your dissatisfaction. Only pure love can truly satisfy the heart.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-12 03:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by TransformYour.World 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is when you take a booger out of you boyfriends nose. Its when you can piss him off in less than 2 seconds. It's when you think about him before you think about yourself. It's when you can feel his pain without him telling you what's wrong. It's when you learn to let him be right to boost his ego, but you know you are right. It's when you are nice to his mother when you know the bit*h is related to the devil. It's when you make love at 2 in the morning just so he can sleep. It's when you turn him over to stop him from snoring. Love is what you make of it.
2006-12-12 03:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this, you don't want to ask, because it would take the mind of a god to understand it, even if you experience love everyday. And there are numerous ways to love, and so many remedies for love, and yet love is still not understandable.
2006-12-12 03:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r right what da hell is love....is it a strong emotion...a desire to be someones.....lust or is it something to do wid bfrnds and gfrnds ...i think i am confusing u more....that is wat luv is confusion
ifwhile walking in da streets u stop and discover that there was no particular reason for u to stop
if u just vile away your time when u know u must work
if your nights sleep is haunted...
if god has some awesome plan for u...
then believe me mate..
u r in love.......
2006-12-12 07:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by rocking arian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my point of view love i when you feel real comfortable with a person and who really cares for you and gives you those butterflies when you are close together. you really dont know when you are in love.
2006-12-12 03:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by BLOOD ANGELS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS ALL..
it takes your breath away...
it's so strong it's paralysing..
it's unexplainable really beyond words...
a touch...a glance...melts your heart..
let's just say love to me is ALL..
my hope is that everyone experiences it, at least for a period in there life...
2006-12-12 04:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Valkyrie of Lor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L=land of sadness, O=Ocean of Tears, V=voice of danger; E=End of Life.
Try to keep away of it. It is harmful. Just enjoy your life!
Cheers,
2006-12-12 04:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I've been trying to figure that one out myself. It's a feeling of joy and a feeling of pain. Love to me is a million and one different feelings wrapped into one word....LOVE. It can make you or break you. Good luck trying to figure that one out.
2006-12-12 03:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Belle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not hell..... its better than heven.... love is the best thing that can happen to a person....
2006-12-12 03:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋