I knew this guy last year, and we talked A LOT, and we both knew we liked each other. We never went out though. I never talk to him anymore and he has a girlfriend, I'm going out with someone as well, but I still get sad when I think about him. He gives me these looks like he's burning a hole right thru me. I don't know why its so hard to get over him. Any suggestions?
2006-12-11 19:31:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just want what you can't have. If you both are in relationships concentrate on your man!
Don't get in this habit of lusting after another womans man. You will only set yourself up for those type of relationships in your future. Believe me. He's just using his "manstincts" (instincts) to test out what kind of girl u r.
Good Girl or Bad Girl.
Don't be a fool . Hearbreak is ahead.....
Turn away from him, that's all. Avoid his glances. You'll understand what I mean when u see him doing it to other ladies which I am sure he does!!
2006-12-11 19:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let this feeling tease you..u both have ur own lives and relationships now and if the attraction between you was that intense, you would've dated before instead of just talking. Im not denying that u like him and he might also like u, but at this point there's nothing u can offer each other besides exchanging glances..if u really believe that u need to put this in perspective, then just do it the straightforward way, call him up and ask to meet him in a casual place (not as in a date)..and tell him what ur thinking..if ur not ready to go that far, then I guess ur alrite and u dont really have a major problem or fixation over this guy.
2006-12-12 03:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still harboring intense feelings for him and he is not helping by giving you those long looks that make you melt. Two options. 1) Confront him and ask him why he looks at you the way he does or 2) Get lost in the lovin' of the person you re going out with.
Hope it works.
2006-12-12 03:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still remember a girl from high school that I wish I had at lest tried to date. It is 36 years later and I am happily married but there she is still in the corner of my mind. Love is funny like that.
2006-12-12 03:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a very serious relationship and I have had the same thing happen to me. I think its very normal. Some people are just so hard to get over, especially when you factor in the whole "what could have been?" thought. Just hang in there.. whats meant to be will be.
2006-12-12 04:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with somebody else knowing that you liked him, too bad for him. Consent rate in the one next to you. Its hard, I know, but many years I thought about my ex and what it could have been. Not realizing that there was my husband all this years loving me with all his heart, but I was too busy to realize it because I was thinking of somebody else who did not choose me.
2006-12-12 03:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Alma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to get over him because deep down you love him. Everytime he looks at you you try to avoid his gaze but find yourself looking at him anyway.I'm sorry but your going to ave to wait this one out till your both single. Then whether you like it our not you are going to have to somehow discuss your feelings for each other and what's happened. Goodl Luck I hope it works out.
2006-12-12 03:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Giraffe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you he will drop his current girl just to be with u. But if he doesnt, then he may only be looking for ways to spice up his own life. And u were just there. He knows too well that u like him too. And that excites him more. But would he leave his girl just to be with u????
He does this..everytime..to different girls.
2006-12-12 03:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by unpretty_gm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he has a girlfriend already drop your mind off him. Move on with your life. Keep yourself busy.
2006-12-12 03:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy with the man you have, hes got someone and you got someone, you just want him becasue you never had him, just let it go, i could understand if you actually went out with him, but you said you hadnt, so it shouldnt be that hard considerin the situation
2006-12-12 03:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by kydd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋