we've been dating for three months...
lately, she seems to have a problem and doesn't share it to me...
she easily gets mad at me when i try to please her, tell her what i feel...
she knows i love her...
she has been testing my sincerity and i think i passed...
we've been arguing often these days on very little things...
but what's difficult is that when she gets mad, she won't talk anymore, wont message me back any more...
can someone help me what to do...
i need your advice...
one more thing, do you think it's still part of her test?
2006-12-11 19:24:12 · 13 answers · asked by ajsavior 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what if i try not to message her for a couple of days and see if she'll miss me?
do you think it'll work?
2006-12-11 19:46:45 · update #1
Some women are afraid of opening to a man for personel reasons see if she's one of them. Some also just dont know anything about seriousness.
Maybe your trying to please her too hard, and she thinks that you'll always be around no matter how she badly she treats you. Confront her and say that your seroius and want the relationship to work. By telling her what you want, your hopes maybe it'll make her open up a little too. If she keeps giving that 'its a test' excuse then ask her when she's finally going to trust you, becuz you know you have.
It takes patience and time, but that's love....
2006-12-11 19:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on..she is not being very considerate of your feelings obviously,or maybe she is just afraid of commitment. give her some space and if she wants to slow down a little then do it. Maybe you are moving too fast for her. The most important part of a relationship is communication friend. The trust and love comes afterwards. Good Luck
2006-12-12 03:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say its only been three months and she is already difficult. You should not be unhappy at 3 months. When you met her, you met her representative. Now you are meeting the real her. Tell her you are into all the games and if she wants to be together let you know...until thrn yall might want to be friends.
2006-12-12 03:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls will test alot early on, but this doesn't seem like it. You need to find a way to communicate. Communication is the biggest problem in relationships
2006-12-12 03:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by green_178 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have a problem that she cannot tell you now. Probably because it concerns you. You know sometimes a girl presumes that u both know what u're problem is but that u refuse to acknowledge..Have a good talk.
2006-12-12 03:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by unpretty_gm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No test needed in ture love
2006-12-12 03:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she's playing games with you and you need to just let her go and move on to the next girl.. dump her and go and find a girl that's not going to mess with your head...
2006-12-12 03:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that she is sitll testing you or she wants you to end the relationship and blame it on you. Or maybe she has someone making her happier than you. be careful she might hurt you in the end.
2006-12-12 03:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by white fung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see that she is interested. You need to be frank and ask her to tell you the truth if not she will disappoint you at the last minute.
2006-12-12 03:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by patrick w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants to break up with you but doesnt know how to tell you,she is not interested how you might be as it sounds like there is someone else that she has taken to now
2006-12-12 03:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋