How do i break up with my boyfriend nicely without hurting him? I still wanna be friends but is not ready to be commited in this relationship yet.
2006-12-11 19:23:28 · 20 answers · asked by Joeann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell him that you need to take things slow! you should take a break and see where things are heading!
and be honest, tell him that you are not ready for commitments!
and if you want him to be your friend still, tell him but i need you to be there for me! like i will be there for you!
Good luck
2006-12-11 19:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by mwa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are no many ways to break up. It always hurts the one who really loves and wants to continue being with the other person. As for being friends after breaking up, it's a difficult thing to do, especially for your boyfriend. It doesn't help forgetting.
2006-12-11 19:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no such things as breaking up with someone without hurting them,more or less they will feel hurt one
tell him frankly why u want to break up is the best,dun give any white lies,he will feel more hurt if he finds out the truth
can be friends after breaking up but not so soon cos it will make him hard to change from relationship to friendship
all the best
2006-12-11 19:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to break up, thn u should tell him as soon as possible, cause as u don't wanna hurt him, if u'll be late then it can hurt him more.. u should be clear to him abt wht u r thinkin now , and why u don't want this relation more on, u can say if u want then we can be a good friends, but u know "friendship can turn into love, but love can never".. so the best the thing is u better break up all the relations... go on, and good luck....
2006-12-11 20:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Gaurav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to break it off you won't worry about being friends afterwards. Most of the time when someone still wants to "be friends" it's because they want ot be able to go back to that person in case others don't work out for them.So--- if you really want to break it off do it clean and do it permanently.
2006-12-11 19:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by christi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to be truthful and don't put it off. The longer you put it off, the deeper his feelings are going to go. This sounds cliche and retarded but honesty really is the best policy. When you tell him the truth you don't have to worry about saying something wrong, just speak from your heart. Unfortunately, he probably will be hurt who wouldn't be, but he will get over it and if your friendship it strong it will withstand the test of time.
2006-12-11 19:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by the_conscience1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like you just said it. If he's not mature enough to handle it and he starts making a big deal out of it, just be happy it's over. Give him some time, he'll be over it. Who knows maybe things can work out for you guys later on... Tell him exactly what you feel. Don't hold back.
2006-12-11 19:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self,tell him that you are not yet ready to go on a relationship and just friends and tell him to wait for you if you were ready in good mannerand if he can wait?
2006-12-11 19:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you guys were
together. I think texting is the best way.
Or over the computer. So you wont have
to worry about the crazy drama :]
2006-12-11 19:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in a nice manner that this relationship will not go on because give your excuses.
2006-12-11 19:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋