we have been split up for 6 years and she left me
2006-12-11 19:19:00 · 21 answers · asked by wasteddevil69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they do not live close by and see each other once or twice a year
2006-12-11 19:24:15 · update #1
she is obviously not her best friend if she is willing to fool around with you knowing full well how her "friend" would feel about it
2006-12-11 19:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by tallshygirl101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you mean "best friend?" And how do you mean "fool around?" But, why not. I know a couple whov'e been married about 15 years. He was a friend of her first husband and his friends as well. She left her first husband (nearly 20 years older), because of the situation causing unbearble stress. She felt incredible relief once out of there. Then she kept seeing this other guy around and he did things like drob by her store when walking by (honest coincidence) and, when at a mutual friend's house with others chatting. Pretty soon they had lunch together a lot (both in the same area and they had to eat). It just evolved and, after nearly a year they realized it wasn't causual, mooved in together and got married a year or so later. The are about the same age. Both are "crazy and creative" - differnetly and they seem like they got it right. BTW, what is your Ex up to thsese days?
2006-12-12 03:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by sirsmoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not. She left you. It's not like you broke up with her to date her best friend. Plus, after six years, you're probably not even the same people you were back then.
2006-12-12 03:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no. Cause it's not cool at all. Let's say ur ex was telling her best friend abt u n how much she loves u but now she will bethe one to hear abt u from her best friend. I am sure they will never talk to each other.
2006-12-12 03:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by yordanos a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After six yrs if you are interested in her friend,I think it would be ok. My best friend married a guy i was crazy about, and i am very happy for her.Him and I just were not meant to be. If your ex gets mad then that's her problem.Good luck
2006-12-12 03:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell not? you have been broken up for 6 years and she was the one doing the dumping. listen if her best friend finds you attractive then it doesn't mean she is not really her best friend. it just means she is looking for a guy. and if that guy should be you then so be it.
2006-12-12 03:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by lilypod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many other around do you have to get that near, I mean your Ex's best friend? Stay away so that nobody would get hurt!
2006-12-12 03:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This a no win situation for everyone involved. No amount of time or distance will ever make this situation acceptable.
2006-12-12 03:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Illuminated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some would say "All's fair in love and war". But I don't know about this one. With the karma thing and all you could surely burn in hell for this. Good luck.
2006-12-13 14:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by mauiniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah! Find your own girl.
2006-12-12 03:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋