I've just returned from a nice weekend spent with my boyfriend. We live in two different cities but he is looking for a job near my city. We've had a few conflicts due to my insecurities and my emotional dependance on him. I do admit, I find it sometimes very hard if he doesn't pay attention to me when he concentrates on his job applications or when we go to a party and he talks to someone else for a while, I then feel like he does not care about me. I told him that and he felt upset that I would blame him for wanting to talk to some of his school friends, whom he has not seen for months or even years. He said he does care and he was always checking that I am enjoying myself but he said I should not expect that he will stick to me all night long. I asked him if he would celebrate the New Year's Eve with me as I will not be able to see him during the Xmas time. he said that he'd like to spend it with his friends as he does not want to be blamed. What should I do? I want to be with him?
2006-12-11 19:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why did u blame him stop blaming ur bf and apologise to him and he will be with u in the new year eve
2006-12-11 19:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i seen this happen before... i think u should stop being jealous or selfish...u should understand when someone havent seen his or her friends for a long time u should let him talk to his friend for a while catch up what they been missing that dont mean he dont care about u or left u out...u should try not to be like that again if my faince done that to me i would have felt same way as ur bf did with u
2006-12-12 03:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temporary separation may be good for you both. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Falling in love with a person could also mean you need to respect his rights especially when he brings you along and is open about who he goes out with. Take heart. There is nothing to worry about. Tell him that he'll be missed terribly and wish him fun time.
2006-12-12 03:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should ask if u can go with him too if he says no then u go and spend it with your friend and he will see that u are not dependented on him anymore and that u don't need him with u. And then he will spend more time with u with out u asking... u need to learn how do to your own stuff and hang out with your own time and he will see how much he misses u and he will want to hang out with u.
2006-12-12 03:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get it straight u and your frnd want to get married or is it just the heck of it.try to talk to him and present your opinion why u wnat to spend the time with him.the stronger ur love the more detrmined u will be and im sure u will onvince him.all the best
2006-12-12 03:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by mans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try everything,if it\'s not ok,forget him
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2006-12-12 03:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-12 03:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋