Am I a nympho?

Question

I need some help.
I love sex, a whole lot. However I am very religious. I am embarrassed to say that I think that I am a nympho. I think about sex at least every couple of minutes. I think there is something wrong with me. I lay in bed at night, daydreaming, that a man comes into my room and haves his way with me. Is this crazy? I just want to do it all the time. Why? I am constanly being approached by men, however I am trying to be a good girl. I had sex last week, however it feels like I haven't had sex in about a year. why? This is all I think about. Please help me. I am trying to be celibate, but I can't stop thinking about it. Should I see a therapist? Please tell me how to get over this.

Answer 1

i juss think ur not fully satisfied yet and you think of sex as a PLEASURABLE thing... a FANTASY... you see it in such an idyllic way that you grow an obsession with it... buh ^^ im that way to i don't think about it 24/7 buh daily ^^ n i wanna b celibate 2 buh its hard 4 meh ^^ my X and i would go at it lyke rabbits! n now that im alone it's even harder... i don't believe there's anything wrong with you... u juss have an obsession w/ sex.... i mean.... who wouldn't want a hunk 2 come into their room at night and turn them inside out? i know i would ^^ buh you c u gotta think of it this way.. sex is a gift from God <4 married couples> its a bond for those in love... it's not just a physical act... wen u feel the urge? just do your best and think of other stuff.... more important things! if u really wanna stop... then stop....

i crave sex 2 buh i crave it w/ the 1 i love ^^

Answer 2

My answer is based on your question being Honest, and that you are not seeking attention.

First of all, we are all sensual people in one way or another.
I recently saw a movie...Babel....One segment concerned a young Japanese female who was having a mental breakdown over her desires for attention and intimacy. I must make the assumption that you are over 18 years of age and that you have free will.

Some of what you are experiencing is normal. Many Women and Men desire intimacy all of the time. We are physically attracted to people at work, in college, at the market place and in Dance clubs.

I ask this question of you...why dont you have a companion, a boy friend?

The fact that you are in a conflict between Intimacy and Religion is a differcult position to be in, for sure.

There are Norms of behavior...I refer to that as Balance in a persons life. Unless you are married or have a bf, daily intimacy is a problem for you.

It is a proven fact that some people, under stress or in distress seek intimacy as an outlet.

That now surfaces the root problem.... a resonible person with out being married and with out a Bf should not act in a casual manner.....the reasons are obvious.

A face to face discussion with a therapist will ease your fears that you are normal in many ways. If the opinion of the Therapist is: You need medication or support group assistence. Act on that advice.

Detail discussions with professionals is always a good idea.
You can set a base line for your behavior and your feelings.

On a personal note: I think about intimacy often...normal for me. Of course, I can not act out on my thoughts.
I am a reasonible person and I must keep balance in my life.

One way or anouther, You must acheive balance in your life.

Best to you and enjoy the Holidays.

Answer 3

Don't you wonder why god gave you such a sexual appetite but tells you that you cannot use it? You are definately not crazy, your urge for sex comes down to nature and the need to reproduce. Humans enjoy sex so we will engage in it and produce babies etc... Your sexual desire is healthy, get a boyfriend and take your frustrations out on him so you dont earn a reputation by sleepin with copious amounts of men.

Answer 4

Sounds like you've got very strong sex drive. Consulting a therapist may be a good idea. However, I suggest you keep your mind off sex and watch a movie that you enjoy. This may help a little. Alternatively, find yourself a husband to satisfy your sexual desires.

Answer 5

You say you are religious right?? Well, pray about it. God forgives us for all of our sins through what His Son Jesus Christ did on the cross.

To help you, just pray about it, read God's Good Word (The Bible) and make a committment to God and yourself that you will remain celibate and sexually pure. Every time you think you are going to think about sex, say a small prayer, asking God for strength to cleanse and purify your thoughts and control your way of thinking. Good luck to you and God bless.


P.S. Sex is a good thing, as long as it doesn't control you.

Answer 6

Why celibate? find your-self a partner to have sex with everytime you feel like it, your a very sexual person so just be carfull and go for it..

I do the exact same thing every night, and i think about sex all day.

Answer 7

if sex is ruining your life , and is stoping you from performing your everyday task then YES you should seek profesional help
buy if not then it seems like you just enjoy sex perfectly normal
and if you have a man to fulfil your needs then go for it unless you are just a horney teen . celibatsy may not be what you should focus on right now ..... unless you are a teenager just try to use protection every time you do have sex.

Answer 8

It seems to preoccupying alot of your time so maybe you should talk to someone about it. If you are serious about your question, this is definitely not the right forum. I don't think that there is anything wrong with thinking about sex but thinking about anything all the time isn't right..

Answer 9

I think a therapist may be a good idea, because you seem to have some serious conflict going on there.

Answer 10

what you need is a guy that can get you done enough in one go that you don't need it for a while. someone who can wear you completely out and make you fall asleep without ever getting up...that's how my friends all got their problem fixed...i helped. lol. :p. but seriously it works.