ignorance is the main for me, pretendence because its easy to see if someone is pretending or not, lack of interest in anything you propose even though it was something you knew he liked all along, lack of attention that means always giving you excuses when you have an appointment or rather going to watch the soccer macth or go clubbing with friends at the day of appointment, the "i dont care attitude" i think that is all i know about. when you see this signs my dear you must know that this relationship is hanging on a G-string/T-string
2006-12-11 18:36:09
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answered by Lorato m 2
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If he's taking the "coward's" way out. He may have said, I need some space, I don't know what I want, or something similar. If he's left you on the hook like this and you're feeling anxious, that's a real sign. If things have changed for you, for the worst. Assess how you're being treated and how you feel.
The best thing to do is to call him and ask him to tell you what's going on. Don't leave things unsettled in your mind. You need to get it straight from him. And you need to know from him that it's over (if it is) and that there's no chance of getting back together (if there's no chance). You need closure--this is very important for you to be able to move on.
Go slow and don't jump to conclusions or accuse him of being unfair without having good reason. There is a chance he was being honest with you.
Signs that he was actually being honest with you are if he shows REAL signs to stay with you. He must be willing to find a way that both of you can be content in the relationship. He's got to be the hero here.
But if he's left you on the hook as stated above, chances are you're being dumped, JUST NOT TOLD.
2006-12-12 02:38:30
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answered by Taramasu2U 3
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Is it time to call it quits? Or signs for being dumped?
•STEP 1: Be realistic. If you're being abused, hurt, cheated on or lied to, it's time to cut your losses and get out.
•STEP 2: Think about the future you're creating. If your partner is jealous, obsessive, possessive or overly emotional, consider the extra burden you are carrying in dealing with those behaviors.
•STEP 3: Is he a shameless flirt? Is she bossy? Demanding? Insecure? These are more signs of a rocky road ahead.
•STEP 4: Do you truly enjoy each other's company, or do you find yourself relieved whenever you part company? If the latter, it doesn't bode well.
•STEP 5: Evaluate your role in maintaining the relationship. If you feel as if you're doing all the work, it's time to talk or walk.
•STEP 6: Does he promise to call and then forget? Is she terminally late? Be honest with yourself. Is this what you want?
•STEP 7: Do you feel accepted and appreciated? If not, move on.
Tips & Warnings
•Make sure you want to end the relationship because the person is wrong for you and not because you fear commitment. You don't want to send Prince Charming packing just because you have commitment jitters.
2006-12-12 02:32:40
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answered by Christine 3
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LOST of interest.WHEN he no longer kisses you like before. When money is a issue .When he talks about the other woman a lot. When he brings up the EX often. When he looks at other women when your out.When he dont call no more. OR calls less and less.WHEN HE pays no more attention to you.
2006-12-12 02:32:35
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answered by Anonymous
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if you have to ask you are being dumped
2006-12-12 02:33:48
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answered by wayne 2
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You can feel it a mile away... and if you are asking this, then you can feel it, and I assure it is around the corner. It's a feeling like no other.
2006-12-12 02:34:51
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answered by Anonymous
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they say we just want to be friends/we werent meant to be together/
when you are together you mate just kinda stares like there in deep thought about something they are having a hard time with
you stop feeling it
2006-12-12 02:30:11
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answered by jbird 2
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when she's not answering the phone or not giving you the attention she usually gives you you're in the dog house. you can tell when it's about over... good luck!
2006-12-12 02:29:24
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answered by theknappy 1
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I agree with Dana.
2006-12-12 02:29:59
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answered by whatever 3
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normally someone says, "It's not you, it's me..." or, "The way I feel about you has just changed...", or "It's just not going to work out..."...or he starts hanging on other girls.
2006-12-12 02:30:50
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answered by Pyromaniac 4
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