I LOVE THIS BOY WITH ALL MY HEART BUT FOR THE PAST 2 YEARS THAT WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER ALL HE DID WAS HURT ME AND UNTIL THIS VERY SECOND EVERYTHING HE'S EVER DONE TO ME STILL HURTS LIKE HELL AND NOW I CAN'T HELP BUT THINK THAT HE DIDN'T LOVE ME THE WAY HE SAID HE DID. WHAT SHOULD I DO
2006-12-11 18:17:30 · 10 answers · asked by confused chuckie lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FORGET HIM!!!!!!
2006-12-11 18:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by theknappy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh god the worst feelin in the world to feel isn't it? your heart feels like it is bein squezed to death. the air is thin. and your head hurts so bad for tryin so hard to understand and thinkin thru. you are still in shock and you know it!!
he did you wrong that right shows that you are aware that he is no good anyone who does you wrong is not worth your time or love. forgettin him like every one else tells you to do hahaha they say it so easy... sometimes so easy that you think they don't even understand. you won't forget him if ever but he is the past and is no longer in the furture so stop lookin back and leave the past.and if he never loved you and you want to know i believe you should leave that behind you it will only hurt worse and make the air thinner and your heart weaker...do other things stop researchin your past.( at least this part) some things are left hidden and unknown.. i know this for a fact, the deeper you dig the bigger the hole gets... if you have pics of him put them away i burned mine in kinda a personal way, it was hard to watch his letters his pics all the letters i wrote him after he left me that i never gave him burn into the ground and the wind carry the ashes away...but days later i did feel a little better cause i couldn't look at his pic even if i wanted to...love is tough in so many ways. but every heart achce brings you closer to the right one.
i wish you lots of luck and send you tons of love cuz it takes someone really strong to get rid of the pain you feel.
by the way me and my love have been apart for 6 months and i still miss him. i don't believe that will ever go away. but it gets easier and time does heal... alot of time but it will!!
2006-12-11 18:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural reaction that you'll feel lost, lonely, missed and hurt at the same time. Move on with your life. Get some of your friends out for a movie or to the mall just to watch others or soak in some Christmas spirit. Worst thing you do to yourself is to remain alone at home. Cheer up...you?
2006-12-11 18:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really understand how you can love someone who hurt you so much but im guessing maybe your just scared of goin out there and bein with someone else. You need to try and forget about him, distance yourself from him for a few months,if u havent already and surround yourself with good friends. Just meeting new people will help and before you know it you may start to fancy someone else...
2006-12-11 18:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always hard to let someone go. at the time right now, youre going to feel like its one of the worst feelings ever... but eventually you'll get over it. its hard after being with someone for so long to not have them around any more. find things to keep you busy. i wouldnt suggest finding someone else so soon, because most of the time it doesnt work, you just got with that person because you were more volnurable after ending a serious relationship. if he didnt love you like he said he would, he doesnt deserve you. there will be someone else that comes along one day that you feel is the right one again, and hopefully he keeps his word.
2006-12-11 18:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Qs and As 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really sorry 4 u.this is bad,io know.spy on him in every means u can come up with.if he hates u or doesn't wanna make it up with u,then u have to leave him.go have fun with ure friends,give value to ure self.u are valuable and deserve a better guy,so just have faith in u.if u do things,funny,entertaining things with ure friends,u will forget him.but if he still likes u talk to him,make sure he ain't gonna hurt u anymore.if he is ok with it be with him,but if not.. girl..u are valuable to the guy who is waiting on u.don't waist ure time on someone who keeps hurting u.get over him.
2006-12-11 20:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is probably what you don't want to hear.. but you need to move on.. it doesn't matter if you love him.. he hurt you.. it's most likely that he's going to keep on hurting you.. it's very difficult for someone to change their ways.. and i'm not saying that people can't change.. but they have to want it.. do you think he wants to... if yes. . then go for it.. try to make it work.. if not .. move on.. find someone that won't hurt you and will make you happy
2006-12-11 18:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by coqueta19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isn't easy you have OT say is what me did so bad or can you let it go did you play apart in it
2006-12-11 18:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for a new guy
you'll get over it soon
i know how you feel
keep your shin up :)
2006-12-11 18:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him
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2006-12-11 18:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋