I have broken with my bf. He says he has no feelings with me.
I can accept that. But he admits that he has fallen love with another gal when I ask him. He says these are two separate issues. But how can it be? To me, he is just unfaithful. I do feel betrayed. Even I can accept the reasons he gave, how can he draw a line so clearly between these things. Also, why does he need another gal to know that he has no feelings with me? I think he saying all these because he just do not dare to confess to himself that he is unfaithful. What do you think?
2006-12-11 18:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by joy_chia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My impression is that while you were together he was not as committed as you expected and kept his options open. He found someone more appealing and wanted to move on. At least he had the decency to be honest with you and he did not start one relationship before ending the first one. You were betrayed in a sense because he would have made false remarks to you while building an emotional attachment to this new person but here is the good news... he is not right for you and you are free now.
2006-12-11 18:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that he feel that your relationship lack the type of love that should be present. He may have fallen in love with another gal before he broken off with you. But it is better in this way rather than both of you breaking off after you get marriage. There maybe certain things that the gal can give him and he feel that you can't give. This is why he need another gal to let him feel that he no longer have feeling for you.
You just need to move on in your life. Put the past behind you and I believe you can find someone who will treat you better
2006-12-11 21:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just boyfriend ! what so big deal about it, whether he is unfaithful or betrayal. Luckily you never married to him but not sure whether you commit any sexual relation with him ? Should you commit then too bad. You still have to move on with life and maybe a better man comes along anytime from now ?
2006-12-11 23:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are spending a lot of time on questions that you have already answered for yourself. Honor yourself. You are the greatest person you know. Learn to love yourself. Learn to be with yourself and recognize that you are complete, you are beautiful, you are fantastic. You ar the greatest. If he doesn't recognize this, he has blinders. If he choose someone else it is because he didn't recognize your great qualities. So who wants him? You certainly don't want a guy who doesn't recognize how wonderful you are. Do you?
2006-12-11 18:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfaithful? He was just your boyfriend. You weren't married, there were no vows. He simply moved on. It hurts to be dumped, but don't try to frame it that he cheated on you because there was no solid commitment there to begin with.
2006-12-11 18:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get Over It and Move ON!
2006-12-11 18:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not unfaithful, he's moved on. you dumped him, and he's found someone better, get over it.
2006-12-11 18:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by veggie_85_16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would slap him hard and never see him again
2006-12-12 11:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you trust him
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2006-12-11 18:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋