Is he not man enough to tell me it's over?

Question

1. He never calls when he says he will
2. He didnt reply to my txt at all yesterday
3. I dont see him at work anymore for a chat
4. I havent seen him in about 10 days

We work in the same building,should i txt him and ask to meet for a chat,or should i txt and ask him to tell me if it's over,maybe i should call?

Answer 1

Don't dig yourself in any deeper. If he was still into you he would have responded by now. Have some self respect. If that's how he treats you, go find someone better. What do you gain from making him explain why he has not responded? He'll probably lie anyway in an attempt to avoid hurting your feelings. The best way to get at him is to show that you can move on faster than he can.

Answer 2

Give him a call and arrange some sort of meeting. If he turns you down for no good reason, that might be an indication. Keep trying until you get a chance to hang out with him, and he may spill the beans then.

Answer 3

Sounds like you had a relationship so I think your right and he hasn't been courteous enough to tell you the relationship is over. I would consider it as such and move on , 10 days is a long time without contact so something is definitely wrong here. If he's acted this way I wouldn't let him see me sweat it , don't contact him just move on you'll find someone better next time. good luck to you !

Answer 4

Sorry but move on to something else for now. Your paths will cross again and when they do be prepared to be confidant and normal. Invite him to a party you do not have planned. It will be for a party of one. You can always say you really don't like crowds but love to party with someone special. Remember be cool not needy. Hand write your number on a piece of paper with your name on it, I know he has it already but he has not called it because he is seeing someone else at the moment. Get his interest away from her and onto you.

Stop trying to read his mind. Just relax and he will come to you in time. Trust me.

Answer 5

Man, is this another relationship based on texting? Call the man, and just ask him. Say that you feel he may not be as in this relationship as he used to be, and should you two maybe split up?

Be straight up, do not play games, and do not TEXT.

Answer 6

Actions speak louder than words. The guy either does not want to have anything to do with you or he is a heel and you should dump him.
Don't go chasing him down at work. It doesn't look good for you or him. It is over.

Answer 7

How long were you guys together?

Don't call, don't text, begin to avoid him and he'll come like the wind.. Guys are weird. He may be over you, he way just like all the attention, or he may be busy.. back off and see what happens.. begin to move on...

Answer 8

i agree with witchtwo i dont know why we stuck with some relation and never have the guts to finish it ,, always the Q's and if's this or that but the truth is somthin else if he/she cares would do anything no make it work if not turn the page simple is that ,,

Answer 9

not sounding good there Kid-o.

He still a bit immature to be playing those games but yea..

sounds like he is avoiding you too send you a silent message

or

he is laying in his kitchen floor with a table spoon of peanut butter lodged in his throat and everyone at work is like... "where is larry" This isn't like him not too show?" while he is all blue and stiff like with the cat gnawing on his fingers for nutrition caus the poor kitties bowl of food is empty...

Answer 10

Sometimes we are idiots. Sometimes we are afraid to hurt, but we don't realize that the dragging out hurts even more. A good way to see if he still cares is to flat out ask him in person. Don't be rude, but just ask him! Good luck