my girlfriend and i live together and have been going out for 13 months. should i feel jealous/ upset if she went out with some people and got drunk and stayed at one of her friends' house in the city? she called me at the end of the night and told me where she was staying.
2006-12-11 17:30:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy isn't something you can switch on or off. You feel it and there is nothing you can do about it. What you can control is how you react to feelings of jealousy. If you have reason to believe that she has somehow been unfaithful and stepped beyond the bounds of your relationship, the only thing to do is to talk about it and then decide whether you can live with the outcome.
2006-12-11 17:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does that frequently then you can talk to her and let her knows your upset/jealous and maybe ask to go along in future. Furthermore she is your girlfriend and not your wife yet. Anyway, both of you must have faith and trust in each other. Best wishes to you!
2006-12-11 17:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous is not the key word in this situation. U shld be angry isnt? Ur gf drunk! Its is a very dangerous act for a gal as it will be easily get disadvantage. U have to tell ur gf that u do not like her to ended up get drunk. So wat is she is staying at her fren place? Still dangerous right?
2006-12-11 17:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Do you trust her? Do you guys both go out separately with friends? Time away is not a bad thing.
2006-12-11 17:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily jealous, but I would be frustrated that she didn't call until so late....also....living together does cause more problems and getting drunk also causes problems
2006-12-11 17:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by BA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her then I see no problem. Has she cheated on you before. If she has then she is doing it again. If she hasn't then don't worry about it.
Why don't you go with her?
2006-12-11 17:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. she called you and told you the truth. she wasn't trying to hide it. being jealous or angry would make things bad.
2006-12-11 17:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by batmanxgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.!!.. have faith in her... been together 13 months...
trust your partner's judgement so.. smart lady..
she called .. to tell you where she was ..right..??
2006-12-11 17:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST is the only word to a good relationship...
2006-12-11 17:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋