Me and my man been together for 14 years but because he was not doing his part as a man we separated for a year when he was living with me i was pulling all the weight in the house and he couldn't handle his thing in the bed room either all he would do is give me oral sex and think i should be ok with that i wanted more from him and he couldn't give it to me are didn't wont to even after giving me oral sex he still wont get up is it me are he seeing someone else now we're back living together and he been back for 4 months and nothing happen but when i tried it happen again i get oral but no ---- i been turned down so much now i feel like i can't please my man he say it's him not me now i wish that i left it alone and he's back im still not happy should i ask him to leave again or tell me how to make it better.
2006-12-11 17:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by LIPS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 14 years together, all you get is oral and nothing else!
The man is not a man but a bad imitation.
You should be desired, lusted for, be made to feel the passions of love as he devours your body.
To have passionate love and your sexual desires fulfilled every night.
You need to dump him at the senior citizens home and find someone who will treat you the way you should be treated.
You should be desired, wanted, and most of all loved.
2006-12-11 17:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well baby girl I say you need to get it together. You been threw this before and now you done put yourself back in the same situation. Life is to short to keep repeating the same o'l ********. If there's no love then why waste valuable time on nothing. What you need to do is ask him to leave and help him to do so. Live your life as you see fit but do it wit respect for yourself and your family. Don't waste love that you can be sharing with someone you love and want to be with. You need to start living for the future now and be happy doing it. Please just don't keep wasting time on something or someone you don't want to be with. Trust your heart and it will be ok. A little praying won't hurt either. TAKE A CHANCE!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 01:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH WHAT GOING ON, THEN HE
SHOULD LEAVE. BUT THE PROBLEM SEEM TO ME THAT IF
YOU WANT MORE OUT OF THIS THEN BEFORE YOU ALLOW
HIM BACK IN YOUR LIFE, YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN HONEST
WITH HM FROM THE BEGINNING, THEN HE WOULD HAVE
KNOW THE THE DEAL.
2006-12-11 17:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LEAVE HIS ***. THE HELL WITH WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. THEY'RE NOT LIVING YOUR LIFE. YOU NEED TO LIVE FOR YOU. I KNOW THAT I LOVE GETTING PLEASED SO, I CANT EVEN IMAGINE LIVING LIKE THAT. DO WHAT IS GONNA SATISFY YOU. YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT YOU GOTTA MAKE YOU HAPPY.
2006-12-13 04:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by misskashmere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW ...has he always been like that..??? i think he should get help ,do you give him oral as well ???
2006-12-11 17:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its prolly ED and hes emmbarressed by it...but if he wont work on it you should leave
2006-12-11 17:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someday, he'll realize that he has to be better...
2006-12-11 17:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by ajsavior 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lips.... make him leave!!!! tll him no more lips...lol
2006-12-11 17:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by apple martini 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋