How can i get a girlfriend?

Question

I dont know what it is but i havent had a girlfriend for a couple months now what do girls look for in a guy?

Answer 1

Can this really be planned? Hardly. The last thing you want is to become one of those desperate creatures who obsesses about the need to be married. Gear your planning toward enjoying yourself and at the same time increasing your exposure to potential mates.

Instructions
•STEP 1: Trust your instincts when it comes to knowing what you want. The older you get, the more discriminating your taste in potential mates becomes. This is a good thing.
•STEP 2: Cultivate a wide circle of friends. Use e-mail, phone calls and birthday cards to keep in touch with as large a group as you can. If possible, be a social hub, the kind of person who brings different groups together. Instead of waiting for things to happen, get on the phone and initiate activities. Join a softball team or enroll in tennis lessons.
•STEP 3: Control your anxiety about not having a mate. Your life is not on hold just because you haven't found someone. Take the time to enjoy yourself today.
•STEP 4: Move slowly and keep assessing compatibility. Don't try to convince yourself someone is Ms. Perfect when he might really only be Ms. Available.
•STEP 5: Dump Ms. Not Right immediately. You'll be much more successful in meeting someone appropriate if you're not carrying around the anchor of a failing relationship. •STEP 6: Exploit gender concentrations. At some point in her life every woman in the world has looked in vain for a skilled dancing partner. Sign up for dance classes.
•STEP 7: Join a gym. In addition to helping you get fit, you get to see lots of active people in skimpy outfits. Gyms are basically like nightclubs but without all the pointless standing around.

What do women really want?

Instructions
STEP 1: Ask her about herself, her ambitions, her life. Be interested. It's a rare woman who wants to sit around all night listening to a man talk about himself. And the more you try to impress her with your tales of adventure, the less impressed she'll be.
STEP 2: Be presentable. Women are notorious accessorizers, and whether she'll admit it to you or not, you are an accessory. Other women will judge her on her choice. A clean, good-smelling man with well-fitting clothes is a real prize.
STEP 3: Make eye contact. A lot. And smile - in a friendly way. Don't leer.
STEP 4: Be a gentleman. It's a myth that chivalry is dead, right? There are just a few women out there messing it up for the rest of us who really do like to have doors held open for us.
STEP 5: Learn to dance. Women will flock to you - all of them will be impressed.
STEP 6: Be funny without being crude. It's an art.
STEP 7: Compliment her. Notice her shoes or her watch - something that shows you're paying attention. We'll change our clothes six times before we leave the house; it's nice to find someone who appreciates the final choice.
STEP 8: It's hard for a woman not to be impressed with a man who is impressed with her. If you really like her, tell her so. You don't have to make a big deal about it, just let her know you admire her.

Tips & Warnings
Don't stare at her - or other women.
Don't guide her around a room. The hand-on-the-elbow steering technique is very annoying. The hand-on-the-small-of-the-back technique is usually too intimate.

Answer 2

Hello, your current girlfriend may or may not have a point. Consider this: how would you feel if your current girlfriend was spending some time with an ex boyfriend? Even if you would think it is okay she does not, and part of loving a person is considering what makes them feel uncomfortable and doing the opposite. Changing and doing things that another person likes does not necessarily mean that you are changing who you are; it just means that you are taking another persons feelings, likes, or dislikes into consideration. (Normally when in a relationship such as this, this is the case) My advice: Limit your contact with your ex girlfriend. Your ex girlfriend is in your past and your current girlfriend is your present. Am not saying or suggesting you should dismiss your ex girlfriend altogether but your ex should be treated the same way you would treat another guy friend. (it should strictly just be friendship from afar; given the history you guys have with one another.) Hope things work out, and I hope this advice helped.

Answer 3

for a couple of months....wow. i'm 20 and never had a boyfriend...but that's a different story. you don't want just anyone...and i think girls can tell if a guy is desperate for a girl or if he's looking for one for the right reason. girls, at least i, want a genuine guy who's looking for more and can give more htan something physical. companionship, someone she can tell everyhting and anything to and will genuinely listen. someone to have fun with to do random stupid things with together. you have to somehow find her the right way, not some shady place like a club or anything. what are you involved in? look at where you can meet a girl or maybe even take your chances and ask someone out who you've seen for a while.

Answer 4

you simply dont go looking for a girlfriend. when the time is right you'll meet someone who is special enough to you to date. well that is if you want a good strong lasting relationship. girls want a boy who is not afraid to be himself in public or private. but the rests really depends on the type of girl. the boy is obviously going to have to be careing.

Answer 5

Get out off the computer so you can find a decent girl!!!!

Answer 6

ppl not on yahoo answers 4 help

Answer 7

am like 22 years n no gf, ur cribbin bout 2 months!!! man ur a born looser no wonder no gf 4u!! :P

Answer 8

dont ask me i havent had a boyfried for 5 years.

Answer 9

Find someone with the same interests & life values.

Answer 10

u cannot get a galfriend u loser. n stop lyin bout u not having for JUST a few months. i dont thivk u ever had a galfriend.