Four weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I called him two weeks ago and we talked about everything that happened, and I asked if he wanted to still be friends. He said yes. Last weekend I called and wished him a Merry Christmas on his voicemail, but he hasn't responded. I'm wondering if he just doesn't want to be friends afterall if he just wants to heal first. But I still miss him a lot. It sucks breaking up right before the holidays, too. Who else is going thru this? What are you doing to cope?
2006-12-11 17:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ME AND MY GUY BROKE UP ALSO BUT HE CONSTANTLY CALLS ITS OK FOR HIM TO MOVE ON BUT NOT ME HE DONT WANT ME TALKING TO NOONE, THEY SAY HOWEVER LONG YOU WERE WITH A PERSON GIVE YOURSELF HALF THAT TIME TO HEAL, LOVE IS PATIENT IF ITS MEANT TO BE HE'LL BE BACK DONT CALL HIM AT ALL LET HIM CALL YOU TRUST ME AND WHEN HE DOES ACT LIKE YOU BUSY AND GOTTA GO. KEEP TALK MINUMUM, YES AND NO ANSWERS YOU'LL MAKE HIM THINK DONT CALL HIM!! AND GO OUT HAVE FUN TRUST ME IM GOING THROUGH THE SAME JUST DONT MESS AROUND OTHERWISE IF HE COMES BACK HE WONT LIKE THE IDEA THAT YOU KISSED OR HUGGED NE 1 BUT GO OUT AND HAVE FUN BE SMART. MAKE HIM WANT YOU!!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 17:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang with your girlfriends and change the routine that you two kept... Unfortunately the best cure for break-ups is time... I'm right there with you actually, 2yr relationship down the tubes about 3 months ago now... it's better and better every day. Time is good. Just do anything you can to keep your mind off of it and surround yourself with true friends and keep busy and occupied to keep you from thinking about it all the time.
And don't dwell on it - it hurts you more in the long run trust me.
2006-12-12 01:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by rYno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you try to find somebody else to spend time with, that will hopefully get the person off your mind
2006-12-12 01:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by cody7r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋