What'z up with yall adults?

Question

I am 15 with a baby (6 months) I just want to know why do yall act as if yall were never a teenager. okay so some of us get carried away and 9 months later have a baby to take care of our child what do that got to do with you. I mean we both are still in school. I'm not gon say that my baby was a mistake and neither should any other teenager say, becuz my baby was a blessing. And I'll chose to be at home with someone that give me joy then to be out parting. What I'm tring to say is that for all you parents who have a teen daughter os son with a baby, stop being so hard on them. This is the time they need you. Hey you was a teen you was just lucky enough to not have ti to happen to you. THINK ABOUUT THAT!!! yall just don't know what yall put yall children through.

Answer 1

I understand. And good luck with your baby.And please try to take good care of yourself physically and mentally.

Answer 2

It isn't so much that adults are trying to give you a hard time it is that they care for you and only want what is best. Before WWII nearly all girls at the age of 15 had babies and were married. But in today's world it is much harder to be a young parent. Often times parent do forget that they were teenagers once and what went on. However if you are only 15 with a baby then they have another child to take care of when theirs is almost grown. A lot of times they have ran out of patience and just don't want to raise anymore children. You have a child now and it won't be long before you catch your self doing the same things your parents done with you. You of all people should understand how much love a parent has for their child. You are still their child no matter if you have 10 babies.

I know that this is not what you want to hear but the type of relationship you have with your parents will more than likely be the type you have with your children. So try to keep the peace and don't give them such a hard time and maybe just maybe they will lay off of you too.

Good Luck and hang in there it will be OK as long as you stick with it.

Answer 3

Yes babies bring joy and they also bring on financial responsibility, of which the adults end up footing the bill for. Don't even say that you pay for all your baby stuff and neither does the father. The ADULTS do. Be it in taxes to make sure you have your welfare and food stamps and free medical for you and your baby. At 15 you are not a contributing member to society. Your brain and rational thinking are not even fully developed. Your hormones, raging hormones, will let you know how irrational you really are. The only reason parents are hard on teenage pregnancies is because they have been through the ups and downs. They know the struggle you will endure when you are not done growing up and have to raise a baby. The adults are the ones to raise the baby they end up loving and feeling sorry for. The heartaches and joys. Babies are a joy and a blessing.
Take care and blessings to your baby.

Answer 4

Maybe your parents want to be grandparents and not raising another child. Maybe they don't have the money to buy the things the baby needs and you want. You took responsibility for having the child and now you get to act like an adult with a child. Find child care, stay in school and don't depend on your parents to take care of your baby. If that is not possible think what is best for the baby. You got carrried away, you are both still in school talk to you parents, talk to a counselor maybe an open adoption would be the best choice for your child. While you are wanting to think about what the parents are putting you through think about what your are putting you parents and an innocent child through.

Answer 5

It will work out for you. My cousin had a baby when she was 15, she is now 28. She is married( not to the father) and very happy. She has achieved alot of her goals and is in a good paying job. She didn't come from money, she worked her way up.It is hard to do, I am glad you are in school still. Finish it!
I am 22 and have a 5 1/2 month old. Believe me even when you get older some people react like that. I get it alot( I am not married, but engaged) I hope the best for you...don't listen to the critisim of the other people, everyone tries to have input. I am SO TIRED of hearing people being negative torwards the moms. It happened, they don't need negative input now.

Answer 6

Everybody has their journey and although every teenage didn't get pregnant, adults were at one time a teenager with their own problems. But your choices have not only affected you, there can also be serious problems in your child's future since you have a lack of certain experiences and knowledge.

You made a mistake and don't need you nose rubbed in it, but don't expect your parents to be dancing with joy that their child has a child. That's a hard pill for anyone to swallow. You want your child to soar, to fly, to do better than you. Most of all you want them to be happy.

You have given up a large part of your youth. That is something you have to deal with.

Answer 7

Good thing you are still in school---you need to double up on your spelling and grammar studies.

I hope you are a good mom and put your baby first.

Here is the deal about us parents who put our teens through stuff--we did make some mistakes as kids and we want only the best for our children and want to protect them against hardship.
Be good to your mom--you have put her though a lot by having a baby at 15!!

Answer 8

well, your name and the fact that you can't spell say so much about you. no wonder you have a baby. stop blaming the adults. obviously, you chose not to listen if they (even) tried to tell you anything!! you opened your legs - that was your choice. no adults told you to do that. and if you've got this (bad) attitude already, then, your child doesn't stand a chance at being any better than you. and guess what else, every word here is spelled correctly!! now, grow up and be an adult unlike the ones you blame!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

hey baby is never a mistake but there saying that because they want u to think about ur carrer
and i dont think u can hav a goof job if ur pregnant
adults dont want their kids to be pregnant at that age bacuz thats the only age wen ur mind is absorbing easyly and u wont be able to study wen ur 30
so u need to focus on skool but u cant cuz ur pregnant see
and if u cant focuz on skool then thats a really bad think cuz the only way urr going to hac a good life is oly if u marry a sucsesfull man..

Answer 10

Wow..... 15... I'm sorry but it's amazing.... Babies are having babies. I understand where u coming from but at 15 your still a baby. I made the choice to be on Birth control cause I know I'm not ready for a child.... and I'm 20, I still want to go to college, be a Veterinarian and achieve my dreams.... Once you have a child you just threw your life away. But I do wish the best for you and your child. GL

Answer 11

are you supporting your child and raising your child without your parents help. they have every right to be hard on you and most ikely need to be . you have to buck up now and face the fact that your youth as you knew it is now forever changed. think about the things your parents are on you about and i bet they are just waking you up to some realities. they sound as though they are there for you,if they were not they would not be on your case,so back off young one and look from their side , they now have another responsibility they did not expect and they want you to take responsibility for your actions. i'm sure they love you both greatly.