why is it its ok for an old man to have a fling for a young woman but when a older woman want to have a fling with a young man everyone says hell no
2006-12-11 16:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry for my spelling it late im tired i dont care
2006-12-11 16:45:44 · update #1
They do? I see it the other way around. It seems that society has okay'd an older woman chasing a younger man. The women call it 'tadpoleing' and men joke around about 'where were these women when I was that age?' Wheras, if I as a 30 year old man were to be seen running around with a 21 year old woman people would ask 'why can't he find someone his age?'
2006-12-11 16:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think nowdays anybody cares either way. The harm comes when one of the younger people are not of consentual age. That is really the only time I have a problem with either. My cousin was 14 when she started dating her now husband. He is like 14 years older than she. While I think he is a good person and super sweet, if it had been my daughter, he would have been dead. I personally would enjoy having a young lover if I found someone who would be interested in me and I was not married anymore.
2006-12-12 00:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about society. i am a 23 male. i think its great. i have looked for older women to have a fling with. nothing wrong in it at all. go do whats fun for u. i hope to find me one and i am sure i will at some point. and if i do i wont care what others think
2006-12-12 00:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if older women is your thing, then by all means do what suits you. Just don't expect for a nice chit-chat when you bring her home to mom.
2006-12-12 00:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as all parties are single, i dont see the problem...
2006-12-12 00:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because society is messed up. plain and simple.
2006-12-12 00:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by iknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know and don't really care......i do it all the time anyway :)
2006-12-12 00:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋