was with this girl for 3 years im 20 now we lived togather and everything. We had jelousy problems with each other. I started to take her for granted and not realize what i had. We been broken up 2 and half months now we have contact still and met up a few times she tells me that she cant deal with my jealousy and that if i ever want anything to happen again that i need to be her friend and show her that we can get along she says that she liked me before why not again. i miss her so much i dont know how to get her back what is the way to go. Should i just not talk to her and if she comes back she does or should i put effort into and take my chances what you think my chances are??
2006-12-11 16:41:30 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should realize that jealously is so lame like I did
Used to every bone in my body was a jealous bone until I realized that it don't matter who I date that if they are going to cheat they are going to cheat. No matter if they drink or not go out with friends or not or are members of a Sunday school class and never miss a meeting. There is nothing you can do about it. However you should protect yourself if you feel that that is a possibility and you more than likely you will have this feeling in the pit of your stomach that will let you know when something ain't right.
I would try to work things out. Unless this girl has done something that you know for FACT that could be called cheating then I would chill out. If you are not cheating then you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
2006-12-11 16:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has already told you what the main problem was. And as far as i see it, she has already told you that she would be willing to give you another chance just as long as you befriended her frist and show her that you are no longer jealous. She has put the main issue out there for you to understand. She does not want to be back in the same situation has before, and have to end it all over again. What you have to do is either show her that you have changed, and befriend her in order to win her back again...Or if u have not changed, then you should let her go so that she can be happy. Because if you have not changed, then she would not be able to be happy with you and the break-up will happen again.
2006-12-12 00:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by velda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly how you feel.
2006-12-12 00:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by iknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋