how to deal...falling to pieces?

Question

recently life has been and is a toughie on me since i have finals week, then i have to get out of my dorm ASAP after a couple of hours after my last final on Thursday and to go home at some stupid party they have where i work part time. on the top of that my sister is staying wity me and i dont have a problem except that i am a wreck all of a sudden. i am crying since the finals are taking their toll on me and my relationship. i am about to leave this home for the holidays except that my bf is staying behind to work to make money to pay for the bills when he comes back since we are both university students-transfer that is- and i will not see him for either Christmas or the New Year. besides that next semester i have a full load and so does my bf but his schedule wil also include work, school,study, and a realtionship. that is where i told him that somehing will have to give at some point and he asked me if i am making him chose because, then real answer would be the relationship. help

next semester will allow us almost no time or not as much time as we spend this semester together: phone, via AIM, and talking on the cell phne and i wonder if this relationship should be ended or continued. i cannot believe though that i made him choose which is selfish of me and very stupid. i do not know what to do and that hurts even more as i am confused and frustrated in a time of finals! any help would be great..thanks

Answer 1

This type of happening you will face in future also. Now busy with study, next time busy with work.

Understand each other needs and do not force your love one to do the thing to meet your needs. Try to do for the better of each other.

In busy time, always keep in touch everyday in any form of communication; by phone, by msm or email. If the one you really love, you can spare a minute or 2 , just to hear each other voice. It is a form of encouragement to each other and to care for each other.

If you and your boyfriend are one in heart, both of you can out win the challange of business.