virgins???
I'm really picky when it comes to guys and that is why I waited til this year at age 20 to have my first boyfriend and first kiss. I got hit on guys before but I always just ignored them. My first bf seemed really sweet and he kept chasing me & seemed really interested in me so I decided to give him a chance. I told him at the beginning that I wanna save sex for marriage and he said he was fine with that. But after a month he ended it saying he "was busy". I think the no-sex was probably the deal-breaker. I got really hurt cuz he made it sound like he could committ but then he just left. I've dated some guys after him but I think that guys don't wanna date virgin girls who wanna save themselves for marrige. It's hard to find a decent guy who will wanna see me as so important and not just dump me for some girl who will give him a pleasurable feeling that will last for like 5 minutes.
2006-12-11 16:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys tell me I'm beautiful but I'm scared to get involved with them cuz i know that once they hear about my views on sex, they will run. Guys what would you realy think about a 20 year old girl who is a virgin and is saving herself for marriage?
2006-12-11 16:41:12 · update #1
You sound JUST like me except I'm 19. I totally understand what you are going through. I have the same views as you and therefore it limits the guys I can date since some guys will not take the "no sex before marriage" thing. It Guys also tell me I am beautiful but once they find out that I am a virgin they run. Guys will even be interested but go for the girl that will "put out" because she can give them the one thing I can't/won't. I think it is because the majority of the guys our age only want one thing and that is sex. But I believe that God has the right guy in mind for both of us and that we just have to be patient and trust His good and perfect will. Good luck to you and God bless and congrats on waiting! Your future husband will truly appreciate your patience!! :)
2006-12-11 16:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love them. I happen to be a virgin, and I'm 21. Of course, I could handle being a virgin until marriage -- that's my intention, anyway. Good night!
2006-12-11 16:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that what your doing is very respectable and admirable and that you should find someone who thinks the same way you do
2006-12-11 16:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by viper8641 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋