MY X BF AND I HAVE BEEN SEPERATED FOR ABOUT 1 YEAR AND 6 MONTHS AND HES NOT OVER ME AND STILL WANTS ME BADLY AND CRYS OVER ME LIKE A LIL KID. WELL I HAVE A BF WHO IM IN LOVE DEEPLY. BUT MY X BF WANTS ME TO TELL HIM THAT I LOVE HIM BACK BUT I CANT CUZ IM IN LOVE WITH MY CURRENT BF. BUT I DO STILL LOVE MY X BF DONT GET ME WRONG BUT NOT LIKE I USE TO LOVE HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2006-12-11 16:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet N Loveable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's over is over. There's no way you can enjoy true love with the memories of your ex cluttering your thoughts. The following steps will help you to move on.
Instructions
• STEP 1: Talk to your friends.
• STEP 2: Get clear with your ex. If there are a lot of unresolved issues involving money, possessions, etc., clear them up. If he is call again, tell him that your are happy with you curent boyfriend now. Ask him to move on to his life.
• STEP 3: If you can't get him out of your mind distract yourself. Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities, games and a good book are all possibilities.
• STEP 4: Recall back the reasons which made you guys broke off. Do you wanna go though all these again? Is worth to risk your time again? Is it fair to your current boyfriend?
• STEP 5:Once you have decided, is better to be firm with your decision & make yourself clear to your ex.
Tips & Warnings
• Clean breaks are generally better. Take some time away from your ex, even if you plan to remain friends. Not to have sex him.
• While you're confuse, don't do anything you'll regret later.
2006-12-11 16:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him to get over you and you really love your new boyfriend then you should really stop talking to the X. In the long run none of you will be happy. Let the guy move on and break all ties with him, you will thank yourself down the road.
2006-12-11 16:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure they are in a position to and could pass on. this happened to me. Me and my ex have been at the same time for a 365 days and broke up. A 365 days later he stumbled on a clean gf. And he does not communicate with me. that is super however. i stumbled on somebody else too! Be grateful that possibly he confirmed you a clean easy in love i understand mine dad and that i'm lots happier now = ] pass on and discover the affection of your existence girlie! terrific desires!
2016-10-18 03:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and focus on your new boyfriend. if u are not in love like u was b 4 then leave it alone. i went through the same thing. let him know u like him but there is no getting whats gone back. let him know that if he wants to be friends that's fine, but as far as that there is no more boyfriend girlfriend relationship.
2006-12-11 16:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by nates_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang up on him or walk away! There is a reason why you broke up. Besides, you don't want to ruin things with your current boyfriend, do you?
2006-12-11 16:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you Accept his affer & i think you get mery with him but first you give him agift,
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2006-12-11 16:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems that you love your current bf more than your x-bf, so you should know what to do...
do your current bf treat you nice, if yes, don't think too much, reject your x-bf.
if you wanna help your x-bf, reject him, don't feel pity with him.
time can cure...
2006-12-11 16:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by vandoren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you still love him inside but your love is not what it was before. Tell him to move on.
2006-12-11 16:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋