can you be to nice? but i can be mean if i have to. but im usually nice, can you be to nice?!?!?!?i just feel that being nice is a better way to be an example true??
2006-12-11 16:25:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anna Costner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey just be "you", if you naturally nice than that's just you.
2006-12-11 16:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In an effort not to hurt anyone's feelings or anything, a person can be a doormat to other people. I used to be that way and now I stand up for myself and people don't get it.
You should never be mean or nasty, but you do need to set boundaries that you don't allow to be crossed. You have a right to say no when people ask for favors, etc.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 00:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can and people will take advantage. If you feel yourself being stressed by being too nice, draw a line.
2006-12-12 00:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such a thing as being too nice for your own good.
Try to create a better solution for them, so they think you are the hero. You'll still be nice!
2006-12-12 00:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be nice but not too nice.. everything too much is not that good you know.. being too nice means also letting other people take advantage of you and abuse you..
2006-12-12 00:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by pamz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to be too nice...you open yourself up to being taken advantage of...just need to find that fine line...but yes, nice is better
2006-12-12 00:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too nice is sweet, but when people walk over you, you have to put your foot down.
2006-12-12 06:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too nice would be obnoxious -- It really depends on the person.
2006-12-12 00:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cant be too nice but you have to allow other people to return the favors you do
2006-12-12 00:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by go cavs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋