Driving by someone's house once a week to see if they're home. Not going up to there door or anything(I'm too shy)
2006-12-11 16:18:14 · 27 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No stalking is when you follow him everywhere he goes. Send him letter or cards when he doesn't want them Sitting outside his house for hours to see if you can see him. Calling his parents of friend to find out where he is and what he is doing. Stalking is when there is a sense of fear on his part if he thinks you are crazy and out to kill him then it would be stalking.
I would let you know that he probably knows that you are driving by his house.
Good luck Try talking to him in town or when you are around him going to his house is a little extreme unless you have been there before ( INSIDE)
2006-12-11 16:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you're pondering the word "stalking" you have given it more importance than that of someone who just drives by out of curiosity.
In a legal sense, I don't believe that a prosecutor could ever come up with a connection to stalking with a once a week drive-by. Now if you pull over and park and stare for a couple of hours, that's different.
If you're a hot Asian babe, you're not stalking, you're prospecting. And you're welcome. Come on over.
2006-12-12 00:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... if walking by a guy's house once in a while because you have crush and are too shy to talk to him is stalking.... I was sure guilty of it back in high school! LOL
This guy had the deepest blue eyes.....
And I'd walk with a girlfriend by his house all the time.... not lingering.... just walking on by..... on the way to the park of course... couldn't look too obvious! LOL
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 00:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how people see it. Some would see it stalking others may feel flattered. You just really would need to know the person. I would feel like they're stalking me but that's just me. I'm pretty sure you don't have bad intentions. good luck
2006-12-12 00:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by rqerita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be especially if you were seen each time. You really don't want to waste any more time with that approach. The least you could do is call him. It's not like he'll hang up on ya.However, if he does you shouldn't let it bother ya most fellas are jerks anyways. Truthfully, the most successfully way to handle this is to show up at his door with a bottle of liquor. It never seems to fail.
2006-12-12 00:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by saabbbbbo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not per say. but if you really like this person why not just ask them out for coffee. you have nothing to loose!
Oh by the way, their car might be there, yet they may have been picked up by someone else who was driving so you really don't know where they are and what they are really doing, so in actuality you are just waisting your time,
Take a chance. don't be shy.
2006-12-12 00:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not stalking, but if this someone knew about it, they might think it's a bit creepy or a bit cute, depending on whether or not they like you.
2006-12-12 00:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I drive past my neighbor's house everyday and tend to check if they are home. I think you have nothing to worry about.
2006-12-12 00:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by tbear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol keyword..
talk ..
you have to at least talk to the person. and thats not even always considerd talking. yess you are shy but that okay. one dayy youll break out of it im sure. but try to be more risky in life! you only live it once hun!
good luck!
2006-12-12 00:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you if your a teen ager i would say no because all teens do it but if you are older i wouldn't say that its stalking but you should talk to someone about it because its not healthy and it could turn into stalking
2006-12-12 00:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋