Birth control?

Question

If you are using birth control (i.e. the pill, the patch, the shot), is it okay for your guy to come inside of you? Or does he still have to pull out?

neither of us have STD's (1, we lost our virginity to eachother and 2, we've both been tested). I just want to know if he can come inside me and if the birth control will prevent the pregnancy.

Lol, I will say this again: We live in UTAH, and we believe in having only one partner (we have ONLY been with each other)--neither of us has an STD.

Answer 1

Hormonal birth control is 99% effective if taken properly. For example with the pill, that means you take it at the exact same time everyday, never go longer than 7 days without active pills and wait at least 7 days before unprotected sex during your first pack ever. It also means that out of every 100 women using the pill as their only method of birth control 1 will become pregnant. If you are comfortable with these odds, then go for it! The pill is meant to be your only form of contraception and is more effective at preventing pregnancy than condoms which are only 97% effective with perfect use. A combination of condoms and the pill or even condoms and pulling out(40-90% effective depending on your source) does drastically reduce your chances of pregnancy, but as I'm sure you know anything is possible so discuss unplanned pregnancy with your partner before engaging in a sexual relationship.

I'm sure you know, it does not protect against STI's, but if you are absolutely certain that you and your partner do not have STI's than, it's okay to let him finish in you. Do note that virgins can have sti's and sometimes people make mistakes, but it's not like husbands never give their wifes sti's. Just remember to get regular check ups, PAP smears and STI testing.

Next, the effectiveness of oral contraceptives can be reduce by taking antibiotics, st. johns wort, certain mood stabilisers that are also used as epilepsy medication. So use back up protection such as condoms if you need to take any of this medication and keep some Plan B around just incase those condoms break.

Considering seeing your doctor for a prescription to the pill and ask him or your pharmacist about any other questions you have.

Answer 2

Here's the thing about birth control. It's a good in the prevention of birth, but it's not 100%. The bigger problem is it doesn't prevent STD's. You may not be able to see down the road right now, but believe me when I tell you that there is no STD that is worth the few minutes it takes to contract it. There can be consequences so far down the road that you can't even fatham. Use a condom. Love yourself. Use a condom. Then and only then you can let him *** inside of you. Also remember; Nobody is ever going to care more about you than yourself and maybe your parents. The best form of birth control and STD's is abstinence. Love yourself. There are other things you can do with a boy that won't put you at such great risk. Use your imagination. Love yourself!

Answer 3

Do you want to get pregnant? I'm assuming you don't if you are on birth control.

Birth control isn't 100% effective. (See the below website for specifics.) Putting two forms together--ex. the pill AND a condom makes it harder to become pregnant.

A guy shouldn't ever *** inside you. Not only because there's a possibility of pregnancy but there's also a possibility of an STD.

Make him wear a condom no matter IF you are on birth control or not. Protect yourself!

Edit To Add:

Even in a monogamous dating relationship you can never be to careful. If it's so important that you guys are together--why couldn't or didn't you wait until you are married? You can never be too sure when you are just boyfriend/girlfriend.

Answer 4

Birth control ONLY prevents pregnancies but does nothing at all to prevent sexually transmitted disease.

You should both use protection. It's equally important for a man to protect himself as it is for a woman. If both partners are being responsible, there's almost no chance there will be a failure. When it's left up to just one person, that's when "accidents" happen.

Pulling out also doesn't prevent disease by the way. Pre-ejaculate can transmit disease long before you get to the point of "pulling out".

Answer 5

Nothing is 100 percent effective, but if you are using "the pill" you are in good shape. But it does not protect you from disease he might give you, so even if you are on the pill you should have him use a condom until you are in a one-on-one relationship. It doesn't make sense to take a chance of pregnancy or disease. There are too many stories about "accidental" pregnancy.

Answer 6

depends if you use it correctly, with all three methods you are supposed to wait 3 weeks before having any unprotected sex...but keep in mind these methods dont protect you from STD's and HIV he should be wearing a condom too..and if he gives you the Bull SH** line that its less feeling go buy the durex extra thin for sensitivity....he'll be just fine...you'll both not end up with something and you wont be come parents...Honey just because he lost his verginity to you doesnt mean anything...he could have a cute lil thang on the side ...wants to have his cake and eat it too..kinda thing. Look if he takes care of his end and you take care of yours you'll be fine....the other thing is that HIV isnt just a sexual thing...there are more ways than just sex to get HIV Look men are not alway faithful...just be safe

Answer 7

If you are on BC then you should be using a back-up method as well and NO NOT THE PULL OUT METHOD!!

Don't you know about sex ed? and SAFE SEX!? No wonder there are so many disease out there and being passed around! TOO MANY STUPID PEOPLE WHO DONT RESPECT THEMSELVES OR THEIR PARTNERS!!

ARE YOU READY TO BE A PARENT? RE-TAKE SEX ED!!! LEARN TO PROTECT AND RESPECT YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DIE OF HIV OR HAVE OTHER COMPLICATIONS FROM STD'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Either way USE A CONDOM! especially if your not married!

The pill does not protect you from ST D's

Answer 9

Neither!

He should wear a condom!

Condoms are like 98% effective
The pill is like 95%

Even together, they aren't 100%!!!!!!!!

Pulling out early isn't effectiveAT ALL!

And, honestly, if you aren't informed/smart/mature enough to know all of this, you aren't ready to have sex at all.

Answer 10

There is always a chance. The only guaranty is to avoid sex.