Right now, I am in a loving relationship with my great boyfriend. We kiss and hug and touch. I do little things for him to show him I care, and we make each other happy. He loves making me smile and knowing that I would do anything for him. We are so in love. And we can talk about anything at all. We communicate and have a great relationship. I feel like he protects me from any harm when he holds me, and when I look in his eyes I think I've found heaven - and the one man I'm meant to be with.
I feel like the luckiest woman on earth.
My question is - when you're in a relationship, there is no set time or prescribed rules when it comes to loving or wanting to marry.
How do you, or did you, know when you were absolutely sure that the person you were with is the one you want for all your life? Of course you love them, and you have a feeling of knowing they're amazing to be with, but at what point do you absolutely know they're the one?
I've also heard people knew the second they met
2006-12-11 15:18:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your out of your mind
2006-12-11 15:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question.
If he has all the qualities you do not want to let it go...Many women look for this in a man and you have one,hold on to him.
If you are in the beginning of the relationship you may want to see if he keeps all this,if a year goes by and you are still sharing these moments chances are you have a true man.If things slowly start to change you will have to determine if the life style changed and other things are in demand at the time for his time and attention but he will always sqeeze those special moments in for you.If you are at the 2 year mark and things are spent this way, you got it girl.
It usually take a relationship 2 years to develop and have all the "true colors" come out.
Now we all know that there is no relationship that is perfect,every relationship goes through challenges,ups and downs and what not but the love always gets us through it and makes us stronger,brings us closer together as we have conquered the issue and brought ourselves to compermise therefore getting to know each other that much more and respecting each others decissions and beliefs.If the relationship is perfect there is a problem.
The best answer would be follow your heart, only you would know if he is the one for you.
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2006-12-11 23:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
It's a risk. I make the decision to commit based on how I feel at the moment. It's not based on a logical evaluation of the likely outcome of the relationship, but what I feel I'm ready for at the time. If I made a mistake, so be it. It's not the end of the world.
You never "absolutely" know someone is the one. That's the point. That's why marriage is such a big deal. Otherwise, it would just be a routine.
2006-12-11 23:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the million dollar question. Considering more than half of marriages end in divorce, I don't think many people know the answer.
2006-12-11 23:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just feel it. no more questions.
2006-12-11 23:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by crimson_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋