hes too protective and controlling but we love eachother. we cant go a day without being together.
2006-12-11 15:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Staying with a controlling person is 1 of the top 3 worst life choices a person can make. It just gets worse and worse and can lead to your violent death. Move on while you have a chance.
2006-12-11 16:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Michael da Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. But nobody can make that decision but you.
I had a guy like that - and I am happier everyday that I am without him. For awhile I thought it was sweet, and it just meant that he loved me so much. Then I realized it wasn't about love, it was about him having something (someone) to control. It didn't matter if it was me, or someone else.
2006-12-11 15:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by t433_sd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being controlling will last forever. if you were to get married, this guy would never let you do anything you wanted to do and he would control your whole life. how much can you love someone who treats you like that? re-think how you feel. trust me, from personal experience, its way better on the outside.
2006-12-11 15:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not good to be with a protective controlling person, no matter how much you love them.
2006-12-11 15:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it's because you both are addicted to the routine you both fell into
Second, you may derive some security from his control, and he might from his control over you.
Third, if that's what you want, that's what you got!
2006-12-11 15:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I divorced a very controlling person. Get out while its early - it only gets harder the longer you're together.
2006-12-11 15:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me i will keep this relationship cause this show that he or she is really love you. This show how he/she appreciate you and willing to be without. You are someone special to them. Eventhough it tough sometime but remember she/he will be with you when you are down or up. Good Luck.
2006-12-11 15:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can't go a day w/out being together.He woul freak out and wonder where you are cause he wants to controll you.
2006-12-11 15:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. When one person is controlling like that, it's almost always a disaster eventually.
2006-12-11 15:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by worldinspector 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!
I was married to a controlling person & I'm now divorced from her. It wasn't easy, but now I'm free to be who I am.
2006-12-11 15:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋