Ok so me and this guy who i really like had sex . but i lied to him and said i was on birth control. why do "in the moments" do this to you?
2006-12-11 15:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by roseupmylife 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Go to your doctor (or family planning center) now... today.
Let the doctor know what happened and get a pregnancy test. The doctor will be able to help you whether you are or are not pregnant or have an STD. If you are pregnant, it's important to begin prenatal care right away. You have to get on the right vitamins and begin straightening out your lie. If you're not pregnant, the doctor can put you on birth control so you're not lying about taking responsibility for your body again.
Either way, it's time for you to GROW UP. If you're old enough to have sex, you're definitely old enough to be responsible about your body. You need to figure out why you felt that having unsafe sex seemed like a good thing to do "in the moment" and why you felt you should lie about protection.
By the way, "in the moments" don't do this to me.... or to most other responsible people.
Sorry for being harsh about it but the rest of your life is at stake on this one. Take a look at your life hon and start valuing yourself. Getting pregnant or an STD is something you have to protect against before you begin having sex. I hope your "in the moment" has no permanent consequences for you and you make wiser choices for yourself in your future.
2006-12-11 15:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Canadian_mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brain is saying one thing and your body is saying another.
Once a person is in the heat of passion, it is too late to start
thinking of birth control.
You must get alone and think about these things and make
some plans> If you intend to be sexually active, then you
should go to a Family Planning office, or even your local
Health Dept. and they will either provide birth control or
refer you to where you can get it.
This is also the time to sit down with one or both parents
and lay it on the line. Some parents can't handle it, but you
should at least give them the chance to realize you are growing up and need mature help.
If you ask for help from your peer group, it probably won't be
accurate because they are just becoming young adults also.
Remember this: the time when a female's passion runs highest is usually the time when she is fertile. Dont' chance
it-make birth control plans NOW. If you are waiting for the
guy to do it, forget it--it won't happen. Condoms work
IN THEORY. It's usualy too late: IN PRACTICE. Babies
are great but wait till you have decided what life road you
will travel.
Have Courage!
2006-12-11 23:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt let an 'in the moment' do that. when you end up pregnant and with a guy who believed that wouldnt happen, that litle 'in the moment' is going to be a little lifetime battle. so you better learn how to be honest in a situation like that. dont make up excuses like 'i was just...in the moment' because it doesnt work and it isnt believeable. what if right after you had sex , he told you he had aids but claimed he was just 'in the moment'? different story then, right?
2006-12-11 23:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, I would come clean with the guy. If you do wind up pregnant he has a right to know. Secondly, go to the doctor and get put on birth control. This way you will never have to lie to your partner again.
2006-12-11 23:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jaime J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has a lot to do with the amount of adrenaline and endorphins that are released in to your bloodstream during "hot and heavy" moments. your body loves the feeling and doesn't want it to stop. you knew it might be a deal breaker and your instincts told you to lie. whether or not it's a good idea to lie about it is another question.
2006-12-11 23:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by soldier0070 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this just happened, see your doctor immediately and see if he/she can give you the morning after pill. Then make sure to practice safe sex from now on.
2006-12-11 23:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...u lied and said u were on birthcontrol (I hope u already know how stupid and immature that was) beside that.....while ur "hoping" not to be pregnant.."hope" you didn't catch an STD...
2006-12-11 23:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhmm try finding a boyfriend who is commited to u so he wouldnt care... and its better for uâ¥
2006-12-11 23:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by kely f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch yourself in the stomach immediately
2006-12-11 23:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Medic 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
next time take a second and take a deep breathe and think...
2006-12-11 23:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by amyw7313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋