Ok well guys i'm only 14 and theres this 18 year old, he likes me and i really like him. I think he's really sweet. But the age difference is pretty big. He asked me out and i said i dunno cause the age is a problem and he was like we could keep it a secret and stuff. like i like him ALOT. but ya. A couple of my friends say go for it but I have one that is saying not to cause hes older so all he prolly wants is sex. but idk what to do please gimme ur advice!
2006-12-11 14:57:16 · 14 answers · asked by babypie_88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well,if u really like the guy,age shouldnt really matter ... but the age diff is pretty big.maybe u could do things together and if u think you really wanna go out with him then go ahead!but if he wants 'that' ... hell no!!! good luk deciding =]
2006-12-11 15:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT! I was in the exact same position you are. I was the exact same age you are and he also was 18. He didn't want me to tell anyone, especially my parents. I should have know that was a RED FLAG. I was too young and so are you. Guys that age that can't get a girl their age to date are up to no good. Yes, I too believe all they want is sex from you. I know you say you like him alot, but it probably isn't love. Not real love. Puppy Love I can agree with. I mean how can you know what real love is, your only 14. I say don't do anything with him. Find a guy your own age to hang with. Don't rush to grow up, say a kid for as long as you can. There is plenty of time to do all the grown-up things when your a grown-up.
2006-12-11 15:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by monar_sharyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's illegal and he could get in a lot of trouble. Second, have you considered that there must be something wrong with a guy who can't get a girl his own age and has to resort to a four year age difference instead? He would be expecting things from you, and you are far too your for that. He sounds really sleazy to me. Find a nice guy your own age, there's something wrong with this one.
2006-12-11 15:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Artemiseos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are too young to be going with a 18 year old guy. and like your friend said he only want sex and if you get pregnant he will leave you and you will be a 15 year old with a baby.
2006-12-11 15:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 05:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't date you - it's illegal. If he wants to keep it a secret, he doesn't care about you at all and he wants to use you for sex. He's a pervert and can be arrested.
2006-12-11 15:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him than i say go for it. Love has no age limits. But if he asks you to have sex with him then my advice for you is to break up with him
2006-12-11 14:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the age difference is too much....he could get into trouble...i'm sure you don't want that if you really like him
2006-12-11 15:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait!! At least until you are 16. And the your friend that says no is really smart listen to her. You'll regret it if you don't!!
2006-12-11 15:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by *♥Jinx♥* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him, find someone your own age, he is physically and metally more mature than you, he doesnt love you he wants to sleep with you, he is a petafile, stay away from him!!! or ask your parents see what they think.
2006-12-11 15:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋