How I can prevent my jealousy when women make out or even praise other men?

Question

I have had female friends (close and just fleeting) who like talking to me because I was nice and intelligent.

However. I rarely asked any of them out due to a nervous disorder, lack of confidence at times and other things.

Anyway, now I have seen them making out with other stronger better looking guys and praising all the good looking men on tv and I don't even talk to them. I feel like they will judge me, compare me to those guys etc...

I also am jealous that I do not look like the guys who they make out with and sleep with. I am intelligent and nice, but those guys are good looking and kinda cocky (I am too modest).

So I have chose to not communicate with all these past girls I know as I feel like a loser around them and scorned.

Answer 1

You need some self-confidence dude. Don't stop communicating with someone just because you feel "inferior" only you make yourself feel that way. You are not inferior to anyone and you need to stop feeling that way!!! :)

Answer 2

Take some Paxcil or other anxiety drug and start getting over the fact that the chicks are into someone else. The ladies like confindence. Show that you don't care if the other dude has nicer hair or fingernails. Don't get cocky. If those girls aren't into you than find girls that are. You seem like a nice guy so start looking for nice girls and leave the scanks alone to guys like me (j/k).

Answer 3

you ever hear of Darwinism? Yeah, survival of the fittest. Obviously the woman you associate with do not see your intelligence as a quality they desire.

Three things: work out and be one of those ''stronger'' guys you refer of; 2, Take some medication for that ''nervous'' disorder, or 3, surround yourself with woman that value intelligence and chivalry.

goodluck,
jblest
www.myspace.com/jblest

Answer 4

Find someone who is girlfriend material and not just a female friend and concentrate on developing a real relationship. Move on and get on with your real life. It's nice being a friend, but not if that's the only thing you can be.

Answer 5

hell I wish that i looked like beyonce and im sure beyonce see things that she want to change about her self
you my friend is to hard on yourself and you need to lighten up
stop being so insecure there is no chance in hell that the women you talk to is going to meet any of those guys on tv and if they did what make you think those guys on tv is going to talk to them even
everybody has some jealousy in them but you need to find a girl that likes you .... and it will come it just takes time find a girl that is not shallow and vain and respect you enough not to goauk and the guys on tv ... this is a big world with a lot of women in it stop feeling like a looser then you want see your self as being a looser if you dont like your body change it go to the gym ........ you need to reprogram your way if thinking

Answer 6

i wouldnt be jealous they have more of an emotional relationship with you being that you all have been friends before so im sure you all h ave done a lot of talking
to me a guy that listens is way better than a guy with muscles anyday

Answer 7

These girls obviously just see you as a friend.

So either try your hardest to show them that you are much more than what they see you as or let them go and go after some other girls.

Answer 8

you have a lot going for u don't bring yourself down to there level by being jealous

Answer 9

your victem complex makes you the victem. confidence will solve most of your problems.

Answer 10

to answer your question easily, work out your issues.