Okay, I've been talking to, texting, and calling this girl at my school who I like for about 2 weeks now. I told her I liked her about 2 weeks ago and she said she'd like to get to know me better as well. We were supposed to go out last Friday, but the plans fell through. She told me she wants to hang out in groups before we do any "one on one" stuff. I really want to begin a relationship with her, but I don't know how to turn the conversation down that path.
What are some things I should say?
How can I tell her I want to be in a relationship with her?
Anything I should avoid saying?
2006-12-11 14:51:45 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me being a gurl, u should listen 2 me........I think u should sloooow down. You goin 2 fast. Some gurls want to get to kno a boy first because she doesnt kno how u are and if u have anything in common. Jus wait and keep takin it slow. If u go too fast and actually get her then things might not turn out right because every thing went too fast. Hope this helps you!
2006-12-11 14:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Group outings would make her feel safe and she can get her friends approval before going too far. These are both wise things for her to be doing - as for you .... make a good impression with her friends and don't be a wuss. Don't be scared to disagree with her and don't contact her so often so she gets a chance to miss you and think about you a bit. Don't invest too emotionally too soon in case she is flaky.Don't tell her you want to be in a relationship with her as that forces her to make a choice...just start having one and let it mature on it's own - if she doesn't want that she will flake and fade you out. When you are on the phone...be the first to end the call as much as possible. Gee I wish I knew all this when I was in school..lol Hope it helps - just take the bits that apply in your case...
2006-12-11 23:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take your time, but don't lose her. You don't want to rush into a relationship right away especially when she's not ready and wants to hang out with her friends. it's only been 2 weeks. You just need to find yourself and get to know how she really is a girlfriend. Don't make yourself sound desperate. girls don't like that. that's just a word of advice. =)
2006-12-11 23:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a situation like this before and i was the one that didnt feel comfortable . Just move slowly , dont rush her and when you think she is comfortable around you then ask her to hang out with you alone but remember dont rush stuff.
2006-12-11 22:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you have feelings for her and you want to know if she'll be ready to have a relationship with you. tell her you're willing to wait if it's going to be worth it in the end. sometimes people say things like they want to get to know the other person better and they take forever. it's a wierd cycle, i don't know if this was helpful but i hope it was.
and don't try to push it on her, just talk to her about it but not like EVERYDAY you know?
2006-12-11 22:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by SMILE : ] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Try not to be too "there" cause then you get to the "friend zone" and ur stuck. Just take it easy but make sure she knows you'd rather be doing the one on one thing.
2006-12-11 22:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by MariJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah avoid comming off like your crazy about her when she doesnt even know u much, she'll find ya repulsive. just act casual and cool, whatever she says act cool about it, go out with her with ppl and just have confidence, you could be ugly beyond belief and still get her if you got that
2006-12-11 22:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,thinking like her,she'd probably want to see what your like around your friends,so just be you and u should be fine!take it easy and dont rush in2 the relationship ok!! talk to her as if your talking to any other friend [girl] of yours
good luk =]
2006-12-11 22:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a while girls dont like to be pushed. if you want to talk you can instant measage me . and do not say the three words i love you it will freak her out and group dating is cool
2006-12-11 22:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL START OFF BY SAYING SOMETHING NICE ABOUT HER!! GIVE HER A COMPLIMENT
2006-12-11 22:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by dima s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋