Hi my brother hates my girlfriend and I don't know what to do. They just can't get along. I love her very much. She has tried to be friends with her but time after time he just acts like a jerk. I love her alot and I need help.
2006-12-11 14:49:48 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi my brother hates my girlfriend and I don't know what to do. They just can't get along. I love her very much. She has tried to be friends with him but time after time he just acts like a jerk. I love her alot and I need help.
2006-12-11 14:51:25 · update #1
I think that you should have a talk with your brother tell him how much she means to you and that you would appreciate it if he tried getting along with her for your sake. If he still continues on acting like a jerk ,but you really love your girlfriend and you and her have been together for a lot time then who cares about the way your brother feels about your girlfriend as long as you and her get along, your brother really doesn't matter you're going to marry the girl not your brother.
2006-12-11 14:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by AngelWithHorns: ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a family where nobody ever liked my boyfriends i'd say decide what makes you happy. you're the one dating her and if you enjoy spending time with her then you shouldn't worry about what your brother thinks. if it were me and i didn't like my brother's girlfriend i would get over it because i'd want to see my brother happy. now if she were hurting him it would be totally different. try going out and doing things with your girlfriend so that your brother doesn't have to be around her and if she's going to be coming over to the house tell him a few days in advance so that if he'll be prepared. try talking to your brother also tell him how much it bothers you with the way he's treating your girlfriend she's a part of your life and he's going to need to learn how to cope with that.
2006-12-11 14:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ash. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro's before Hoe's!!!! Or maye they have a thing going on. Don't say not my brother. What better way to cover up an affair than looking like two people hate each other!!!!Things that make go HMMM.
2006-12-11 14:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by onebadmedic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother, that you love your girlfriend alot, whether he likes it or not. And he needs to grow up.
2006-12-11 14:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it important for your brother to like your girlfriend? Stay away from him....what is the problem??
2006-12-11 14:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to find out what he has against her. maybe he likes her, or maybe he has some dirt on her and doesn't know how to tell you. the only way this can be fixed is to find where the problem stems from. good luck
2006-12-11 14:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is not dating her. If he does not like her, too bad for him.
My parents cannot stand my wife.
My wife's parents cannot stand me.
We did not marry them, we married each other.
Tell the brother to butt out!
And tell your girlfriend to stop trying to be friends with him.
2006-12-11 14:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you live with your brother if not split your time with them but different .your a man be a man take charge of your life son
2006-12-11 14:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lewie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea maybe he is jealous some how of you and your relationship with her. If she isn't diong anything wrong and he is you need to stand up for her and defend her. And out of respect for you he needs to be kind to her or shut up and not say anything at all.
2006-12-11 14:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldn't worry about that because it's ur brother and she's ur girlfriend not his soo he shouldn't have any problem because u can be with whoever u wanna be and ur brother shouldn't have anyh problem with that
2006-12-11 14:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋